My pregnancy wasn’t bad. Postpartum almost took me out. That’s the scariest thought about having…

My pregnancy wasn’t bad. Postpartum almost took me out. That’s the scariest thought about having another kid. It was moments where I thought I was really out of my mind. Ppl don’t talk about the dark parts of child birthing & after. Check on your friends, period. Not just the strong ones. All of the women in my circle are strong. When God drops them in your spirit, act on it. Depression/anxiety doesn’t come with warning signals. One day you’re fine and the next you’re hiding in the bathroom stall trying to catch your breath from an anxiety attack. I say that to say, let’s stop pressing/asking people when they’re having more children/going back to school/getting married/finding a man/etc. Some of us really can only focus on the day of. 💖