My husband actually thinks he is the one who brought Savannah all the things she has ummmmm no honey…
My husband actually thinks he is the one who brought Savannah all the things she has ummmmm no honey it was all me. The 100 dresses.. me, the two strollers and two walkers..me, and everything else she has and gets is because of me. He needs to stop lying to himself and to his coworkers 🤦🏽♀️ but on a lighter note Savannah eating dinner lol
Lanie Jay·
Aren’t you guys a team?
Queen Bitch·
Does he contribute money? Then yup he bought stuff lol
Lydia Duran·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
@braindeadmama, ummmm I don’t know what money he put towards her because he doesn’t at all
Queen Bitch·
@momof5brats, he doesn’t work and pay bills? Do you guys not live together? Sorry I’m just being nosy lol
Lydia Duran·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
We both pay bills but I am saying I’m the only one getting her the things she needs like diapers and clothes and whatever else she needs. The post is about him not getting her the things she needs not about paying half rent. That’s not going to help when she is low on diapers
Lanie Jay·
@momof5brats, I take care of all our kids needs out of my paycheck, but we’re still a team and WE provide for our kids. He’s responsible for other bills. My husband would be incredibly hurt if I turned around and said that wasn’t providing for our kids
Lydia Duran·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
@laniejay, That’s great but it’s not the same for me so I have every right to say something. Especially if half the time he doesn’t pay for anything and I do it all myself
Lanie Jay·
@momof5brats, does he not pay for other bills in the house?
Lydia Duran·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
@laniejay, we pay for bills but most of the time it’s me because he spent his money on lottery tickets and cigarettes
Lydia Duran·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
On top of me getting her stuff I pay rent, food and other things we need
Lanie Jay·
Sounds like you need a come to Jesus discussion with him and tell him to pull his weight or get out.
Lydia Duran·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
@laniejay, I already told him that and he went to the store to get her a $1.00 pacifier because that’s what she wanted
Lanie Jay·
@momof5brats, then follow through and tell him not to let the door hit him on the way out. He only behaves how you allow him to. If he’s not fulfilling his part of the teamwork, then there is no team. If you’ve told him enough is enough, then let it truly be enough.
HaleyGragg.23·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
Y'all are supposed to be a team, putting in equal effort. It shouldn't be a competition. It should be two people both contributing to taking care and providing for the baby and making sure she has everything she needs. You should talk to him about doing more to do his part as dad if he's not putting towards his baby girl.