I just absolutely love some women on here! Some woman wants to write on another women's post telling her she shouldn't be having sex at all in the beginning of pregnancy. I didn't know she was her doctor. Then she wants to tell me that the first trimester is only 1-9 weeks pregnant. And she lost her baby at 4 weeks pregnant due to sex. Like sweetie that's your period starting!
I don’t know why some people give out advice! You can absolutely have sex unless on pelvic rest 🤦♀️
@beakymcspence, I honestly have no idea why either. She claims this is her third pregnancy. Like if this your third pregnancy then by now you should know how everything works.
@keelygeedy, I think some people assume that because sex can bring on labour in the end when your near or over due that this means it can cause labour anytime? Just a guess lol could also be plain old stupidity 🙄
Shouldnt be having sex?.. like everyone and anyone knows that's only if the doctor states 🤔 maybe she should see a new doctor or just ask them questions or do some reading.. opinions from women on here need to be taken with a grain of salt cause some of these people have no idea what they are talking about 😒
@beakymcspence, I honestly have no idea. I didn't know that having sex would cause a miscarriage lol. I guess that means I should have had one then and so should have a lot of other women.
@keelygeedy, Welp then why do women have transvaginal ultrasounds in the first tri 🤦♀️ ugh.
@kendrab, She literally wrote on some women's post she shouldn't be having sex at 6 weeks pregnant because she will have a miscarriage. That she should wait until she's at least past 20 weeks😂
@beakymcspence, It's just plain stupidity from some people on here.
@keelygeedy 😂 I dont even know what to say.. not to sound mean but I hope she educates her self a little more because that's a bit sad!
@kendrab, She blocked me now because someone liked my comment of what I said to her. And I don't know why you would make up a story of you lost your baby at 4 weeks pregnant!
@babymay2016, I honestly feel so bad for this poor women who made the post just asking if having sex could cause bleeding then being yelled at by this lady saying she's a miscarriage all because she had sex.
@keelygeedy theres reasons to have miscarriages early on and yes they are sad but come on why do you gotta blame sex? At 4 weeks you like just found out so it's like? Lol maybe she thought she was pregnant but didnt test and got her period after sex cause it was late, I've gotten my period after sex a few times actually.. and definitely not miscarriages they were periods lol
Well I wish I saw that post too and could tell her that is crazy advice and that she is okay... What on earth kinda shit is all that. Omggg
She just made and I believe deleted a post about this. Everyone was telling her how wrong she was but she wouldn’t budge. Lol I felt bad for arguing after awhile because there has to be a few screws loose there 😬
@babymay2016, I privately messaged her and reassured her that everything was going to be okay.
Girl idk where she got her research from, she clearly gave advice to a mom on her on how she can’t get second hand smoke from being around it ... so clearly her advice is not good , I kind of feel it’s also a fake account , the stuff and pictures she post look nothing like her
@tennesseehawk, Most likely is. She says her mom is a nurse and if her mom didn't tell her something it's not true. But if her mom is really a nurse then I think she would know what the hell shes talking about!
@jellybeans_mumm omg what the hell. Yeah she was following me and I just looked through her other posts and blocked her because she posted something with two pictures of her saying she doesn't know why people don't think that's her. Uhhh probably because it's not
@jellybeans_mumm, I'm starting to believe it's a fake account also. And apparently all of it came from her mom who is a nurse!
@babymay2016, yeah I know I was going to comment when I seen it but didn’t , she also said she was supposedly bullied on another app?? I’ve never seen her post at all till recently but what she post does not make sense , and the stuff she tells other moms is like what???
@jellybeans_mumm, when I read her post I immediately thought it was fake! Probably is.
@keelygeedy, yeah then she said her dad told her she miscarried cause she had sex .. so I was beyond confused 🤷🏼♀️
She's commented on a lot of my stuff too with just whack ass remarks that make no sense. I don't think she is real either but that username is too damn long for me to find her now to report LOL
@keelygeedy, She actually said her Father gave the advice, and she didn’t listen “went to hard” and it caused a miscarriage because she didn’t listen to him.
@tennesseehawk, yeah I think it is as well something odd about the account I kept denying the request but it keeps being sent over to me 😩
@jellybeans_mumm, This exactly right here is why moms leave this app.
@jellybeans_mumm, I am directly quoting what was said and it indeed was worded “Went too hard” lol
@keelygeedy, her pictures looked nothing like her, she said she photoshopped them or had someone do it ..
@jellybeans_mumm, @beakymcspence, Wait I'm sorry back this tf up.....her dad told her she miscarried over "going to hard."
@babymay2016, lol poor thing , the whole thing seemed kinda odd , well that was our entertainment for the night 👌🏽
So her dad warned her to not have sex, She didn’t listen, went too hard and the bed was covered in blood. I did try and explain when a miscarriage happens the bleeding doesn’t start till a day or more after loss of viability. I’m feeling like when information is given the lights are on but no ones home...
@keelygeedy, Nope dad warned her ahead of time no sex and THEN she went too hard. It’s important we maintain the correct timeline of events here lol 😂
@jellybeans_mumm, That defiantly was the entertainment for this early morning. I'm so glad I check out mom.life this time of day.
@beakymcspence, Thank you so much for correcting me on that! Oh so I'm gunna assume next that dad is an ob/gyn😂.
@jellybeans_mumm, Oh please send that to me! @beakymcspence, mentioned that post to me. I can't see anything this women posts she got me blocked.
@beakymcspence, Ohhh the bed was covered in blood???? Well that's totally how a miscarriage goes..NOT! I'd like to know what happened next.
@jellybeans_mumm, Oh yes regarding the cranberry juice. Also did you know yeast infections pills are only pink. I’ve personally never had a pink YI pill. I guess I’m missing out on the cool kid cooter pills.
@marielovely, @kristcoleman88, The big talk right now is about yeast infections!
@keelygeedy is that who everyone is talking about? She's a sweet momma... there are just some gaps or misinformation she believes and pushes strongly. She told me she lost a baby due to heat, I don't know if she actually knows or if that is just the best assumption etc. Idk. She is a sweet girl though.
@alice-quinnsmommy, Oh now it's a different story. She's now saying it's because she "went to hard" while having sex.
@leximonae1k, I’m blocked couldn’t tag her .. her page is private and it has been deleted her post .
@kendrab, Some women don't even find out that early in pregnancy.
@alice-quinnsmommy, sweet girl but a lot of odd things on her page ... just don’t seem right
@jellybeans_mumm true and the comments she leave to other people, she's the kind of person who seems like she hears one thing first and that is what she is set on.
@alice-quinnsmommy, yes exactly .. I just shake my head but tonight was like wait a minute lol ..
@jellybeans_mumm I had to go check out her page just to see the posts, I found the yeast infection one and the reasonings she used had me baffled, several said cranberry juice and her first answer with "my mom and doctor never said that" and then that she needed meds like they are the only thing that will work for her because she doesn't "have a good immune system."
@alice-quinnsmommy, yesssssss!!! Lol she had gave someone advise on second hand smoke on how it can’t harm them, and then she stated that her photos are photoshopped and no one believed it was her
@jellybeans_mumm, Second hand smoke won't harm you?? Hmm never heard that one before.
@jellybeans_mumm secondhand smoke can harm anyone no matter size, age etc... that's why you're not supposed to smoke around young ones, a mini human isn't protected from it because they are in a big human.... oh no, even if you're suspicious that is not how you call someone out...
Lol didn't she post something about her getting banned from a different app? ..well now I see why.... 🤦 Something is off about that female..
And @keelygeedy you had me laughing with the "sweetie that's your period starting" 😂😂😂😭😭
@justlynn, Yea she did. But honestly I don't know how you get your period confused with a miscarriage.
@keelygeedy I think she's kind of gone quiet for the night, shes taking her probiotics for the yeast infection now and that's the last I heard. @justlynn I know she was talking about an app called mama app that she was telling everyone to stay off of because she was bullied for sharing advice and she had a long hard time there and wanted us all to stay off because she wants us all to just be happy.
@keelygeedy maybe she had a hysterical pregnancy, so she had a test that came up positive just before she started her period and that's how she got confused because she didn't know what a miscarriage bleeding actually looked like...???
@alice-quinnsmommy, oh my what a story! I honestly feel bad for her. I think she might seriously need to see someone and discuss her concerns and issues before giving other moms info so they don't end up leaving this app.
@keelygeedy That would be a good idea, or atleast just stop responding and leave the situation/message someone instead of posting/commenting it for everyone to see.
@alice-quinnsmommy, Maybe she did and I'm sorry if she did. But don't tell everyone different excuses of how you had a miscarriage. I really don't understand how she had one from "going to hard" is exactly how she stated it to laying in a puddle of blood on her bed.
@alice-quinnsmommy, I personally messaged the original poster of the first post she commented on and assured she wasn't doing anything wrong and she wasn't having a miscarriage or being a bad mom for having sex
@keelygeedy Yeah, sex is safe during pregnancy unless there are other issues for one. And secondly bleeding wouldn't happen in the middle of sex if that it what caused it if it really was a miscarriage, you don't bleed immediately... and period bleeding is way different than MC bleeding. Okay, that's good! Mommas are already worried about the possibilities of doing something wrong, let alone someone putting false information in the poor lady's head and scaring her.
@keelygeedy I know everyone is different, but I know my MC bleeding didn't start until about 3 days after.
@alice-quinnsmommy, Yes everyone is defiantly different but saying that is a little extreme. I don't get why you would even make up a story about having a miscarriage like that. That's defiantly a hard thing to go through.
@alice-quinnsmommy, And your right about every mom being scared of doing something wrong. It doesn't matter if it's her first or 6th pregnancy.
@keelygeedy Yeah, you don't lie about losing a family member (unless your a kid trying to get out of something) or one of your kids you have, why would you do it about one you didn't have?
@keelygeedy exactly, everyone's going to worry and will second guess things no matter how many times she's been through it.
Attention... you're right... It's not even sad at thay point it's just disgusting.
@alice-quinnsmommy, I'm on my third pregnancy and still worry! Even with going through it before and having medical knowledge I still question things. And I know it's disgusting. I feel bad for all the moms who she's giving false info to.
@keelygeedy Well, it makes sense, as everyone says, every pregnancy is different. So even if something worked in one pregnancy it may not in the next. Or there are experiences you can have in one that you didn't have in another and then you have a whole new list of questions you wouldn't have thought of previously. I hope enough of those mommas that did get false information, looked into it or got more opinions and got the right information at the end.
There is another lady on here who posts bad advice on TTC. She basically has no clue how it works and gives terrible advice. She ended up blocking me after I corrected her several times lol
@masseymomma16, I got blocked after telling this lady that she isn't a doctor and shouldn't be telling this other women to have sex or not.
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I don’t know why some people give out advice! You can absolutely have sex unless on pelvic rest 🤦♀️