**REPOST** I hate that I’m such a nice person. My “friends” never talk to me unless they need…

I feel you 😏

some of my closet friendships faded once i got pregnant and there wasn’t no real explanation. girl i have even been stood up by the besties but now where i am, im thankful my family relations are more close support and relevant than ever before. it’s personal but im not takin it personally cause then I’d be the only on hurt in the end.

Feels 😞

@bbymomma, exactly. They’ll regret it at the end of the day tho.. Cause nobody calls or texts to check up on me like I do with them. But as soon as somebody need something everybody blowing my phone up and talking to me for the day so I can give them what they want. I’m cool, I’d rather not be cool with anybody.

honey i definitely feel you. one sided relationships are for the birds and we got bigger fish to fry. it’s unfortunate but it is what it is. the way they handle others is simply a reflection of how they handle themselves. plus everytime one door closes another one opens ☝🏽

Thats not being nice, that's being a push over. I don't know about finding friends. I have none now and im ok with it.

@mhbb3, I honestly agree with you 🤷🏽‍♀️I’ve been kinda dumb toward that.

@leximonae1k Not dumb. Everyone wants to feel loved and accepted. It's taken me 28 yrs to realize that my allies are my spouse and god and my family. Its great to have friends but they aren't always available.

Honey you cannot let your "friends" do you like that. It isn't right you don't deserve it!

Ok that not what you ask.. Just wanted to put that out there.

It take time to find real friends the ones you have of course isn't.

When it come to people. I just watch and see who are the once there for me in my darkest days?!

Who love me when I being crazy ( which is a lot lately lol)?!

Which ones ( family including) just want to be around me to get something from me. For this one ( and there are a lot) I give them one warning and if they do not change I simply walk away from them for those ones I'm not really close with anyways so doesn't make it that hard to don't walk away.

I feel it smh