So if it was 41 days between the first day of my last period and now, I probably won’t be fertile…

Assuming your luteal phase is 14 days that would be correct. Typically you should see your period 2 weeks after ovulation.

@jessig2006, but with my cycles so messed up should I still ovulate around that time?

That I am not totally sure about. I can't remember have you tried opk's? It would at least give you an idea if you're ovulating when you should and an idea of how long your lp phase is. What kind of birth control did you come off of?

@jessig2006, yeah I have used opks. When should I start to use them though? I had the nexplanon implant in my arm. I had it taken out in March and have only had 2 periods since then

Cd23-31 are you fertile days possibly

I have heard the Nexplanon can really throw off your period for like up at a year after getting it out. I hope that's not the case for you! How long was the last cycle?

So that’s when I should start using my opks?

Depending on how long your last cycle was I would start testing maybe 3 weeks before expected af just to make sure you don't miss it. If you are using the cheapies because we all know how expensive those can get?

I bled for 6 days so that’s pretty normal for me. I hope it doesn’t take a year to get normal! That’s a long time!