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Idk why my mom wont just divorce her husband. Hes too damn much and causes so much stress on her life. And its been this…

Idk why my mom wont just divorce her husband. Hes too damn much and causes so much stress on her life. And its been this way for 10+ years. Up until about 4 years ago he was a drug addict. Didnt work, stole all her money, stole and sold everything of value, put her in debt to the point she almost lost the house. Now hes sober and they're both working full time making great money but theyre still broke now he takes all of his money and her money and gambles it away and lies about things that hes payed. They currently dont have gas because he lied about paying the bill. If i hadnt charged the electric bill to my credit card last night it wouldve been shut off today. Weve only been living back here for less than a week and ive already had to pay an over $200 electric bill just to keep the lights on. Yes we can afford to help out a bit. Thats not the issue. The probelm is that my stepdad owes us over 700 dollars and still asks for money. I dont get how my fiance makes 14.75 and hour and can. Fully support a family of 6 and now is helping out my mom. But when it was only my mom n stepdad in the house and my stepdad makes over $20/hr and my mom makes 16/hr how bills dont get paid. That's soo much money. Where tf is the money going. I know for a fact that their mortgage is only 500/mo which is what i paid for rent at my old place. They only pay electric and gas and charter which are the same bills me and my fiance paid at our old house, we even had a water bill which my parents do not. I JUST DONT UNDERSTAND! im not mad at my mom cuz i know she tries but she needs to stop relying on my stepdad to do what hes supposed to do or beleiving him when he says he did it. My stepdad doesnt even want us living here but is pretty much forcing us to Now because he wants us to "help" with bills which means we pay the bills so he has more gambling money. Im so freaking pissed off right now, i have so much anger for him its not even funny

It’s no problem when my money is covering my husbands part of the bills but god forbid when it’s time for him to pay me…

It’s no problem when my money is covering my husbands part of the bills but god forbid when it’s time for him to pay me back no only does he give me a little at a time when I wasn’t paying bills little at a time but he always try to play this guilt card talking about I got no money well I don’t got money either when I have to pay ur portion I don’t feel bad

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

I told my friend my mom wants to throw me a baby shower and write on the invite "monetary gifts only" and he told me…

I told my friend my mom wants to throw me a baby shower and write on the invite "monetary gifts only" and he told me that people aren't trying to pay for my "gas bill" I'm offended because a lot of money goes into a baby shower, and if you're gonna give me a 10$ blanket from Ross that I probably won't even use it's a waste. I rather use those 10$ for my honest company diaper subscription.

ugh as much as i want to breastfeed i dont think it will be able to happen i cant afford a pump my bf barley gives me…

ugh as much as i want to breastfeed i dont think it will be able to happen i cant afford a pump my bf barley gives me money the only way is to constantly keeps her on the boob which im hoping i actually get milk this time! :/ and please if your not gunna say anything nice dont say anything at all because im not in the mood

My doctor said he would induce my labor at 38 weeks, if my baby girl still had growth issues and if the percentile…

My doctor said he would induce my labor at 38 weeks, if my baby girl still had growth issues and if the percentile dropped to 10 or less. Last thursday, it was 10 percentile, and he said if she didn't come on her own by 38 weeks, he would induce labor at that time. I'm 36 weeks 1 day today, he said my cervix was super thin, and 1cm dilated. Is there a possibility this can change... that my doctor will let her just come on her own? I don't want to be induced, i would much rather her come on her own when she is ready to come ! As much as I am anxious to meet her and have her home with me, those last few weeks of brain development and lung maturation means so much more to me! I'm hoping and praying that things turn around, and I don't have to get induced. I'm surely going to talk to my doctor about it Thursday when I go back.