I'm feeling really emotional. No matter how hard I try my fiance's parents hate me. His mom will…

My fiance's parents hate me too. Anything good I do isn't good enough for them! When his mom found out I was pregnant again she told me to get an abortion!

Oh wow that’s so disrespectful. I would be hurt too, but at the end of the day I wouldn’t try to get them to like me because they clearly have their own issues on why they wouldn’t like you. Don’t worry about it, I’m sure you have a wonderful personality and you’re a great person. Forget them. They’ll come around eventually. I was like that with my baby fathers mom.. and she eventually came around and warmed up to me. Don’t let it bother you.

@queendeeahlease he is Dominican and I am white our son came out very light skin (not that it matters lol) but she came to the hospital room and said that cant be his baby because he is too light. My fiance is upset with me because he says I could have put more of an effort but idk what else i could have done. Why would I want to sit in a room full of people who down grade me and pick me a part all the time.

@leximonae1k and at the end of the day the baby shower is for their grand baby not me its gifts and things for the baby so I dont understand why they wouldn't suck it up and be nice for the kids.

@aileenquinter123 I feel you completely! I'm Puerto Rican & hes Jamaican & they believe he should only date Jamaicans! I think it's messed up & childish . When I'm at their house I just feel so odd. I'm really to the point where I don't want my son or my unborn son around them bc if you don't like me there's no way you're gonna be around my children !

Wow that is horrible ! My first problem would be with husband ! Those are his parents he should have told them long time ago , you are his wife and they will show you respect ! You are the mother of his kid and he that he won’t be tolerating no disrespect towards you or he will end all communication with them . I wouldn’t invite them either because you should not be called out your name or be talked down too . Calling you fat is not your name ! That’s disrespectful and you shouldn’t have to be around it . If they don’t want to like you f them !! You don’t need them . They need to apologize to you and show you that they are worthy of being around you , the baby , taking up your time etc . I would also tell them that you don’t appreciate them talking about you like that and that your not fat ! Your sexy , strong , beautiful, brilliant, and thick ! She can learn a thing or two.

@queendeeahlease yep I think it's a race thing as well the first day we met before she shook my hand or introduced herself she said omg now both my sons are with white girls why couldn't one of you be with someone who speaks Spanish. But I guess he is in denial because he refuses to believe that's the reason. well idk what else it could be.

@luv_2b_amomma I really needed to hear that ❤

@aileenquinter123, I am glad I could help . Don’t let them bring you down . Stand tall hun ❤️❤️

They are always in denial when it comes to their parents. I told him flat out yesterday I don't care for what his parents have to say about me anymore bc he literally recorded his dad telling him to leave me & find somebody else & I mean it hurts bc we been together 2 & a half years you would think they would be over that already but nope

@queendeeahlease yep we've been together going on 6 years and still the same crap.

Regardless of who they are it's not worth the stress on you. I have no doubt that you are worth spending every moment with and that you are a wonderful mother wife and person and it's their loss. If they want to treat you like crap and they don't want to come to your baby shower and they don't need to come and see the baby when he or she gets here. Your body your baby your feelings your Life your choice.

That's so immature you have there grandchildren. I wouldn't let them see the kids or even be around them , if they don't like you how they going to like two beautiful human beings that are apart of you ? And he should be sticking up for you , does he want his kids growing up knowing his grand parents disrespect mommy? How's that going to reflect on your children? They're going to think its okay to disrespect you or they're going to end up hurt. Either or. They should respect you . This is so wrong. So sorry you're going through this. My Ex Mother in law hated me and would tell my ex husband that my son wasn't his and that I was a whore and cheated on him all the time when it was the other way around he would do drugs and take me vehicle and drive girls around in it , I left. I know what you're going through don't put up with it.

@christina946 it is immature and it makes my home feel very divided. She adores my step daughter and will buy her things and spoil her but leaves my son out. Shes gotten a little better with it but my son still feels she dislikes me and he tells me all the time.

@aileenquinter123 that isn't fair at all your husband really needs to say something. It isn't okay to treat one child better then the other.

Your husband really needs to say something. Not only is it unfair to you, but if his son even notices a difference in treatment- that’s above and beyond being rude. You treat all my kids the same or you don’t treat any of them.

@anndreeuhh it breaks my heart. My son will tell me all the time grandma loves me mom but she doesn't like me. Once I heard that come out of my 3 year old I stopped bringing him around but she is close with my step daughters mom so she will call her on her days to see her. I cant stop that. My fiance has said things to her multiple times especially about the rude remarks she makes about me and it just keeps continuing so he said we need to just distance ourselves completely. But it breaks my heart because they are his parents and I know he loves them and it hurts him.