I can’t with my sons father. I texted him at 6:30 asking if I could FaceTime with my son and he texted me 40 mins later…

Oh I cannot deal with that shit! If I want to see my child he better let me! Omg that would give me SO much anxiety!!!

SOB! That would honestly make me lose my mind in an investigation discovery kind of way. I need access to my baby at all times 😫 I’m so sorry momma!

Tell him to FaceTime him asleep, you just want to pray over him for the night.

@sincerepolicy, @dazzlingmommy, girls I have done nothing to this guy but be as civil as possible and not fight or bitch or anything lately when I could have! He honestly has serious mental issues. But thankfully he is willing to meet earlier tomorrow to bring my baby back! 🙂 but I really wanted to see my son, I don’t get what the big deal is. I would let him if he asked as long as I wasn’t at work. It’s not like I asked super late like right now where he could be sleeping. I feel so bad for my son. :/

@missjess, I’m sorry you have to go through that. I can only imagine how frustrating and stressful that must feel!! I hope he learns to deal with his issues whether on his own or with professional help. It really sucks when two parents can’t cooperate or work together. I pray he comes around soon for your and your baby’s sake! 🙏🏼💛

@dazzlingmommy, I don’t think he ever will. He’s divorced and has two children with someone else and I assume he’s probably the same to her. :/ he only cares about himself. He doesn’t genuinely care about my son. And he’s so screwed up in his head he never sees anything that he does in the wrong . He lives in his own weird twisted fantasy land. He’s very odd. 😶 and it’s not only me that sees it my parents tell me it all the time too because they see and interact with him more than I do these days because I work Friday nights when he comes and picks up my son. It’s beyond frustrating and I try and try but I just have had it. So I really do the bare minimum. He just disgusts me in every way possible and I know he doesn’t properly take care of my child and he doesn’t genuinely care about him it’s just a big act idk for who cause I see through the thin curtain.

@missjess, Wow that’s such a shame!

Honestly I wouldn’t want my child alone with him. I know it’s important to have the father in the picture but not if he isn’t going to take care of him right or cooperate with you. All you wanted to do was FaceTime to make sure he’s okay!! Smh. I just wouldn’t want that selfish behavior around my child. With my anxiety my mind would go to the extreme with what may happen while my son is there especially because he doesn’t let me see him. Girl just reading this post makes me so angryyy!!! Lol I would go nuts