So, I have kept my calm and ignored this one girl for a while now. But she’s really starting to get…
So, I have kept my calm and ignored this one girl for a while now. But she’s really starting to get to me. She’s not from on her but she’s an old friend from high school who was a year younger then me. She’s a mom to a almost 2 year old. She’s 18. She doesn’t go to school any more but works part time at McDonalds. She almost never posts anything about her daughter on Snapchat or Facebook. She always constantly talks crap about her daughters father and calls him a dead beat when he has tried his hardest to be involved and pays child support. Her daughter is almost always with her mother or father. Almost every single night she posts videos of her going downtown, driving around with multiple different dudes. This girl has had a sugar daddy. She’s legit always partying and smoking weed. I know I shouldn’t have an opinion because one is not my child. I just stay out of it and never hang around her. I don’t understand how you can have a baby, claim you love them and how she’s your whole life but you don’t spend time with her at all. The fathers girlfriend has reached out. The girlfriend is pregnant now and wants the kids to have a relationship. The mom refuses. She said the baby was going to come out ugly. I think it’s horrible. She tried giving me parenting advice before and I’m not going to accept it from someone who barely takes care of their child. I think she needs to have a reality check.
Jami·
She will have a reality check sooner or later, at least the little one has a supportive father and his gf. I think parents can drink or smoke weed responsibly I'm not against it. However she just sounds like a party girl. It's sad. I love my bubba I couldn't leave him every night to go party, especially taking care of my own apartment, working, and providing for him, cooking for my baby etc. It just doesn't work. Your child should be more important
Brooke·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@bluepenguin, I agree with the benefits of medical marijuana. My sisters health has improved just a bit by smoking medical. And it helps cancer patients. She however is abusing it. And I feel the same way. Spending a night in watching the “baby shark” music video (hour long version) sounds more appealing then getting stoned and drunk. It’s more memorable and special. I’m only 19 and so many people have told me I need to get my party phase going and I just hate it. I don’t want to drink I don’t want to do drugs. I just wanna spend time with my baby and once in a blue moon go dancing while he is at his fathers. I wish other teen moms would realize the impact they have on their child(ren).
Honeymoonblessing ·
Stop following her on social media.
Jami·
@jacksmama17 yeah I'm 19 too, it's okay to have a night out every once in a while, but I agree , it's probably better to unfriend her or stop following her. Oh i mean I support recreational use. Everyone has their limits , just to be careful, safe, and make sure your bubba is in a safe place is all. Every once in a while isn't a bad thing . But the girl is on a different level. However theres not much you can do