We took vows....I do not believe in remarried...to death do us apart... forever...no retry.... even if your wife or husband died or divorce. What do you think about this??
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Yeah I definitely don’t agree with this. Shit happens, life could go on. Just because you marry someone doesn’t mean you’re shackled to them forever, espeeeeecially if they cheated! Now, I don’t think it’s okay to give up at the sight of the first issue but some problems cannot be resolved.
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@mberjuste84, you can forgive but a serial cheater will not stop.
@mberjuste84, my aunt went through that. It was horrible. My uncle kept cheating nonstop. Now he’s cheating on his current wife
@mberjuste84, it’s not a matter of being tough. It’s a matter of knowing your worth. And my husband knows his. We have expectations of our own lives that we live by too. I don’t hold him to standards I can’t maintain myself and same for him.
@jack.ass wowwww...umm.. tough cookie....good point made😎
My husband also took vows- and if he breaks them, I am under no obligation to keep mine. If he’s abusive, unfaithful or is harmful to our family and children (careless and goes to jail, unhealthy behaviors, etc) I’m out. We both laid our expectations out before marriage and if either one of us can’t maintain that, then peace out. There’s many things you can work through and others that are a hard pass.
@jennatess good point..role model
If my husband ever cheated, I’d be done. I wouldn’t want my daughter to think it’s okay to be treated that way.
What the heck does money have to do with it? Lol. Our kids will be fine whether we are together or apart. Actually, the kids would be better off not growing up witnessing us in an unhealthy relationship.
@mommynes really wowwww...that's sad
@mberjuste84, especially if he’s rich. Mama needs that child/spousal support 👀😂😂
Every abuser say that they’re sorry and it will never happen again and it ALWAYS happens again.
@_sheriee even if he was a rich man?? You still would leave him and not forgive him .what if y'all had ten kids together
Trust me, never. I value and respect MYSELF
@mommynes nope lol...I'm just curious
@mberjuste84, girl...you got something you need to get off your chest?
@_sheriee sooo what if he agrees to marriage marriage counseling
@dee2115 that's why they have marriage marriage counselors
Nope. Some things could never be forgiven. No one should be beating on one another. Sorry but they don’t “change”. That goes for both female and male parties. A huge part of marriage or any relationship includes respect. Both situations, beating and cheating, clearly show that person has zero respect for the other.
Abuse is never okay no matter the gender or how many apologies there are.
@mberjuste84, no seriously NEVER lol. I can’t do it, I hold grudges like no other and would bring it up all of the time and that would not be a healthy marriage.
So if a female hits her husband..he forgive her but when he do it ohh he'll break out....it's over..why not give him a second chance especially if he's really sorry
@_sheriee really..what if the table was turned around
@_sheriee but he promised he won't ever do it again
When I said shit happens, I mean life could go on WITHOUT them.
@mberjuste84, no. I’d leave him the second he laid a hand on me.
If my relationship needs cheating in it to make us stronger then we’ve got bigger issues then the cheating 😬
@mommynes yeaaaa save the marriage so the 30years don't get to waste..down the drain
@mommynes bitter memory..why bitter....maybe the cheating will make you stronger
@mberjuste84, it’s a special memory if he passed away. If he cheated and threw it all away? It’s a bitter memory.
@dee2115 don't say never...umm wowww
@_sheriee LoL shit happens .....what if he's beating on you?? But he begs for you to forgive and stay with him
I would never be able to forgive cheating. 1 year, 10 years, 100 years. Nope. Sorry.
Yeah I definitely don’t agree with this. Shit happens, life could go on. Just because you marry someone doesn’t mean you’re shackled to them forever, espeeeeecially if they cheated! Now, I don’t think it’s okay to give up at the sight of the first issue but some problems cannot be resolved.
@mberjuste84, like I said, I’ll try. But I know I couldn’t. And like @aileen_west, I would think soo I’m supposed to save our marriage because we’ve been together for 30 years but those 30 years didn’t matter enough to you to keep it in your pants? Nah. I would not be the one to blame. He did it.
@mommynes amen special memory...the memories don't have you second guessing on making the marriage workout
As for marriage after the death of a spouse I think we’re allowed to. Personally I wouldn’t remarry. I wouldn’t be alone forever either but I wouldn’t remarry. That’s a special memory that will forever be between my husband and I and I wouldn’t want it with anyone else.
@mommynes marriage wasn't worth it...what if you been married for 30years??😊
@aileen_west but what if you were the one who cheated and you don't want a divorce ?? And you made a mistake
I feel like I could TRY to forgive but it wouldn’t be worth it. I would just be dragging out the inevitable. I’d resent him and never let him touch me again. It would be better for all parties, especially the children, to just end it right there and then.
@ambers14 we supposed to forgive..what if you have kids or been together for 20years and they cheated??
Only way I believe in divorce is if there is abuse or cheating. Now if your spouse dies, then sure you can remarry. I don’t think I could though. My mom didn’t.
Definitely do not agree. Things happen and if my spouse was to break his vows, or there was a betrayal or death, then I do think that’s it’s okay to date and potentially get remarried again to someone else.
Definitely do not agree. Things happen and if my spouse was to break his vows, or there was a betrayal or death, then I do think that’s it’s okay to date and potentially get remarried again to someone else.