Any other FTM’s having issues with people just TELLING you they’re coming over instead of asking? Honestly it makes me just want to tell them no whether I’m up to it or not. My SO’s friends and family are having a really f*cking hard time with the concept of boundaries.
I'd have SO tell them they need to check in before coming over (since they're his friends/family). Its inconsiderate, and how can they expect to entertain you at the drop of a hat when you have a baby on no schedule whatsoever? Like, if I'm putting baby down for a nap, I don't need you to pop in because I ALSO want to nap!