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for those who had a miscarriage and then had a successful pregnancy. how did you get through the successful pregnancy without being haunted by the thought of your past miscarriage?

29.08.2018
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expectinggreatness
Expectinggreatness ·Мама сына (6 лет)

@daedaebrn, I’m here if you ever want to chat because I definitely understand the feeling. Everything will be alright ! 🤗

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daedaebrn

@expectinggreatness, that’s great. i can’t wait till i’m at the point where i’m almost bringing home my blessing. i’ll just think positively and pray my way through these next 20 weeks

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daedaebrn

@d.j112811, wasn’t a doppler expensive?

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expectinggreatness
Expectinggreatness ·Мама сына (6 лет)

@daedaebrn, the app that I used before this one , a lot of women shared their stories and it encouraged me to know that just because you had a loss doesn’t mean that will happen with the next pregnancy . It also gave me hope to see women who had losses go on to have healthy babies . I had a loss last year at the beginning of the second trimester and it was devastating . I did not know how I would go on , but here I am today 33 weeks pregnant and expecting to bring my baby home in about 7 weeks . I have been thinking positively and praying and listening to motivational talks . I feel much better , the closer I get . Especially now that I’ve reached viability .

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shay2beautiful
Shalyn Carden·Мама троих детей

I've never gotten over my losses. I had a mc in 2015 and lost my son last year due to preterm labor. I've learned to cope and I pray everyday!!❤️

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angelfoodcake
angelfoodcake·Мама троих детей

I agree too, you never get over it. But you get stronger.

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chantilly-lacebb
Chantilly Lace·Мама четверых детей

@daedaebrn if you have a Facebook look up jalens gift foundation page and ask to be added. They really helped me. Thier also a ton of pages on there for help. Miscarriage Mama's is also full of wonderful ladies.

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daedaebrn

@expectinggreatness, where did you read the positive stories at? every time i read about mc, it’s all so sad and discourages me a little

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expectinggreatness
Expectinggreatness ·Мама сына (6 лет)

It took me a while . I just read a bunch of positive stories , prayed , and spoke positively . Sorry for your loss . Feel free to chat me if want someone to talk to🤗

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daedaebrn

@chantilly-lacebb, def will do

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chantilly-lacebb
Chantilly Lace·Мама четверых детей

@daedaebrn anytime! And thank you for your congrats and your condolences. 💙 Take care of yourself and pm me if you need to talk!

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tatsandcats
Erica·Мама двоих (6 лет, 8 лет)

Following. I had a mc six months ago and just found out I’m pregnant. Trying not to worry and stress but that’s impossible.

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daedaebrn

@chantilly-lacebb, i would love that. thank you so much. and congratulations on your blessings. and sorry for your loss

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chantilly-lacebb
Chantilly Lace·Мама четверых детей

@daedaebrn I completely understand. My second pregnancy was a preemie baby girl due to the same thing i lost my son too. Im not fully developed bc of being born early myself. My 2nd daughter was a full term perfect pregnancy. I know it's hard but the best thing to do is to keep your mind occupied on other things (I know it's easier said than done) but it really helped me alot. I just had my 2nd son 5 days ago he was considered preemie by one day! I can not have any more babies. God works in mysterious ways. Pray every night. Your rainbow will be in your arms before you know it. I will pray for you and baby too if you don't mind! 💙

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beth.hayes64

@daedaebrn it also helped a LOT to feel him move. I love every single movement. It let's me know he's okay and it makes me relax just a little

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daedaebrn

@beth.hayes64, same. i had a MC 4 years ago which makes this pregnancy scary. after 14 weeks i relaxed but now i’m still scared. because it’s like i’m halfway there but still feel so far

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daedaebrn

@chantilly-lacebb, thanks. sorry for your loss as well. i had a miscarriage 4 years ago. which makes my pregnancy now so scary

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beth.hayes64

It honestly took a while... like after 14 weeks I stopped being so worried that I was going to lose him and began getting excited that I was actually going to be able to hold him one day. I bought things early to keep me excited and keep my head focused on the positive. Then the miscarriage dreams came and they were so vivid I would jolt awake and run to the bathroom to make sure I wasn't bleeding. Now my biggest worry is what labor is going to feel like and it's a blessing. I'm sorry for your loss. I would say it gets easier but everyone grieves differently and for different spans of time.

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mommy_to_4
Robyn·Мама четверых детей

I had a MC before my oldest and after my middle daughter. Got pregnant 10 years later with my son and I still had the fear of having another miscarriage. I had another MC back in match and i'm now 10+3 with my 4th and I worry every single day. Haven't had an ultrasound yet so my nerves are shot to say the least.

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m00my2five
Stephanie·Многодетная мама (5 детей)

I'm on my second successful pregnancy and still have fears.

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alyboo102293
Alyboo102293·Многодетная мама (6 детей)

You don’t , just try to worry less and stay positive. Everything happens for a reason, but I had to stop stressing myself out for my LO sake I still get paranoid.

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chantilly-lacebb
Chantilly Lace·Мама четверых детей

I had my first baby stillborn. I have three kids after him. The thought never went away but I did take extra precautions. I rested way more and took my prenatal vitamins every single night. Some days will be easier than others. I'm sorry for your loss.

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