My husband's way of treating kids and mine are so different 😐.

I grew up with the tough love and when we cry it was you're okay get up and shake it off or the I'll give you something to cry about but my mom would never hit us 😂 just yell

Beejay grew up with the coddling but I'll beat you and everyone else will beat you if you do something wrong.

Now we're a mixed family he telling me to swat their hands if they misbehave and I'm like uh I don't want to. I just say I'm going to punish them in a scary voice and they stop...idk how long they will pick up that I'm not hitting them. But time out don't work for them. I guess walk sit it is