Maybe im overreacting but my son is 18 months old and my hubby has a son from a previous relationship and he is 6 years old we live in a two bedroom (moving into a 3 soon) . Im currently 20 weeks pregnant with another boy due in January. So yesterday i go out and bought my son (18 month old) a cute little fire truck bed and buy him a little crib mattress with it, i get home we set it up and its so cute . He slept in his bed with no complications! Well Hubbys son already has a bed and sleeps in our home 2 nights a week. My son just got transferred from the play pen to his big boy bed . Anyways hubby went out and bought my stepson the exact same bed with a crib mattress and everything and it kind of irritated me . We literally just discussed how he needed a bigger bed and were gonna upgrade him to a twin . So i got mad and told him a bunch of stuff on how i dont like how everything my baby gets he gets his son ! Literally BABY things! Its so annoying he's in first grade and gets baby toys and all this stuff he bites my baby and doesn't get any punishment except yelled at ! Ive caught him pinching my baby and acting like my baby just keeps crying for no reason ive caught him putting a blanket around my sons head multiple times and even twisting his arm ! I think it has to do with him getting treated like a baby so acts out cause he knows his dad never sees it of course and he wont get spanked . He even tries to go and cry like a baby its so annoying. He doesnt share or anything . Im always on his back because hes constantly doing evil things to my son but im the only one that catches him and my mil a few times . im at my witts end with this ! Back to the bed thing i told my husband to take it back and to let my son have his last baby moment's for the next four months before new baby comes ! His son had 5 years of only child and i feel he needs tol grow up and be a big brother cause theyll be another soon i dont need 3 babies around here especially when he is old enough to know right from wrong! hes such a brat and so disrespectful to me and his dad ! Hes constantly being a smart ass and talking back like "well my mom said this and that or my moms is better or my little sister is better and blah blah blah " Help idk what to do anymore am i wrong for being sooo uggh ? He can literally have new toys and because my son is minding his business playing with blocks trying to learn how to play with them he'll come and be like " no david you cant play with that " and take it . my son can switch to multiple different toys and just because hes playing with em he'll literally be behind him taking everything ! Just to not share even when they are my sons toys ! Im so annoyed with this shit
The bed needs to be returned. Not because it matches the baby’s but because it’s not financially responsible to buy a 6 year old a bed he’s going to grow out of super quick. It’s a waste of money.
As for discipline, that should mainly fall on your husbands shoulders. Have a talk with him and let him know how you feel.