It’s no problem when my money is covering my husbands part of the bills but god forbid when it’s time for him to pay me back no only does he give me a little at a time when I wasn’t paying bills little at a time but he always try to play this guilt card talking about I got no money well I don’t got money either when I have to pay ur portion I don’t feel bad
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Okay mommies I’m in a dilemma.. I kind of want to find a part time job but my SO isn’t really fond of the idea because he wants me to stay home with our daughter which I want to do as well but I literally never have any money and he’s really tight with his like he pays bills and stuff but hates spending money on groceries or anything else and it’s getting a little ridiculous. He makes good money and has his bank account built up where we’re fine and could spend some. I don’t have a car and I know he wouldn’t pay for daycare which I’d really only like to use as a last resort anyways. I thought about babysitting and still selling Avon as well but I’m not sure if I could handle extra kids all the time like I used to.. am I crazy for wanting to get a job and have my own money? He makes it clear that the moment I get a job I need to start paying some bills which is fine with me but I’m not sure if it’s worth it if he’s just gonna throw a fit for me to pay bills every paycheck and me still be broke and not be able to buy the things that I need..
I told my friend my mom wants to throw me a baby shower and write on the invite "monetary gifts only" and he told me that people aren't trying to pay for my "gas bill" I'm offended because a lot of money goes into a baby shower, and if you're gonna give me a 10$ blanket from Ross that I probably won't even use it's a waste. I rather use those 10$ for my honest company diaper subscription.
So we have no food in our house and no money so whatever we had I let my husband and kids eat. I'm so hungry. I haven't eaten since yesterday. I wish we weren't so behind on rent. Next week we have to pay our phone bill and the week after we have to pay rent again. I'm so sick on not being able to have food in our home.
