What I don't understand is my husband doesn't want me working because he says he has all the bills but then again complains about we have no money to pay anybody back what we owe them so I said okay let me get a job my mom offers me a job at the house where my son can be with me he bitches at me and screams me oh no you don't need a job and if you get a job then we're going to split up I'm not understanding at all yeah our bills are paid but we owe a lot of people money and everybody else that owes us money isn't going to pay us back so there's no other way but for a second income and I will consider that a bill because we have to pay them back out of our money but I guess it is what it is he doesn't want me working so I don't want him coming up to me complaining about we're struggling we need to pay these people back because at the end of the day I tried he didn't want me to work so there's no other option
It’s no problem when my money is covering my husbands part of the bills but god forbid when it’s time for him to pay me back no only does he give me a little at a time when I wasn’t paying bills little at a time but he always try to play this guilt card talking about I got no money well I don’t got money either when I have to pay ur portion I don’t feel bad
Okay mommies I’m in a dilemma.. I kind of want to find a part time job but my SO isn’t really fond of the idea because he wants me to stay home with our daughter which I want to do as well but I literally never have any money and he’s really tight with his like he pays bills and stuff but hates spending money on groceries or anything else and it’s getting a little ridiculous. He makes good money and has his bank account built up where we’re fine and could spend some. I don’t have a car and I kno...
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I told my friend my mom wants to throw me a baby shower and write on the invite "monetary gifts only" and he told me that people aren't trying to pay for my "gas bill" I'm offended because a lot of money goes into a baby shower, and if you're gonna give me a 10$ blanket from Ross that I probably won't even use it's a waste. I rather use those 10$ for my honest company diaper subscription.
So we have no food in our house and no money so whatever we had I let my husband and kids eat. I'm so hungry. I haven't eaten since yesterday. I wish we weren't so behind on rent. Next week we have to pay our phone bill and the week after we have to pay rent again. I'm so sick on not being able to have food in our home.