What I don't understand is my husband doesn't want me working because he says he has all the bills but then again complains about we have no money to pay anybody back what we owe them so I said okay let me get a job my mom offers me a job at the house where my son can be with me he bitches at me and screams me oh no you don't need a job and if you get a job then we're going to split up I'm not understanding at all yeah our bills are paid but we owe a lot of people money and everybody else that owes us money isn't going to pay us back so there's no other way but for a second income and I will consider that a bill because we have to pay them back out of our money but I guess it is what it is he doesn't want me working so I don't want him coming up to me complaining about we're struggling we need to pay these people back because at the end of the day I tried he didn't want me to work so there's no other option