So we're are trying to get custody of my 16 yr old step daughter. We have had her sense Feb and her…

So we're are trying to get custody of my 16 yr old step daughter. We have had her sense Feb and her mom got charged with assault against her. Her mom has to go to parenting class and for some reason hubs has to go 😑. They want me there too but we don't understand why it feels like we are getting punished. Court ordered for her but not us. Hubs hates being in groups. Still having a hard time getting custody when she's 16 and can choose who she wants do live with. Lot of BS.