Yea I went to get my hair done today and felt bad for being gone for that 3-4 hours....and I'm just thinking like, that can't be healthy

I feel that way all the time . I never do much for myself anyway . It’s always doing for my son because he comes first and didn’t ask to be here so I make sure he gets what he wants but it’s super normal .

Me too😩

Me too. I cant buy anything for myself without feeling bad.

i see it as a reward for myself. i work, cook and clean every day. you deserve to treat yourself every now and then.

Yea that’s very normal. A good lesson I learned when I was pregnant with my first was you have to do for you to be the best you can for your kids. When you feel good you will be more adept to enjoying everything around you.