Just wanting to vent... Im so tired of living with my MIL, FIL, and SIL. It's hell. SO works 2nd and…
Just wanting to vent...
Im so tired of living with my MIL, FIL, and SIL. It's hell. SO works 2nd and they work 1st so I'm here having to co-mingle with them while hes gone. They're SO stuck up it's ridiculous. They act like they're so perfect when in reality they are far from it. Father in law cheats on his wife and gets away with it, he's literally sleeping beside her the same night she finds out. But im not allowed to voice my concerns, yet when it comes to my child they're constantly judging what I do. By no means am i perfect but I'm a great mom, my child is happy, fed well, clothed well, and learning something new everyday. They think it's my fault my 10 month old isnt walking? We practice everyday but im not going to force it on her, they take my meat ive thawed for my own dinner and cook it, MIL invites everyone over to the table but me. Then insist on talking shit in spanish about me and eye rolls galore... they underestimate my knowledge. I stay calm though. Apparently i can't stand up for myself because I'll hurt someone's feelings, boo hoo. Anyways ive been trying to convince SO we need to move but he insists on buying a large home and us all sharing. I love him more than anything but i literally can not live with them anymore. Im at my wits end. Im so scared I'm going to fly off the handle and get physical with them, they make me that mad sometimes. I just leave when I'm feeling like that. Anyways sorry this was so long ive just really been holding it in and needed an outlet. Ahh feels a little better already.
Rose ·
Have you told your SO your about to lose it? If that's the case you don't want it to get that far, why don't you go with your family since he isn't willing to leave them
Retta Rodriguez·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Honey my hubby mother and sister constantly talk shit about me and they live with us .i told him straight up you either talk to them and it stops or im going to let it all out and not in a nice manner . gave him 3 days to talk to them. He did it in a hour after i told him this . my hubby instead on them staying with us because his mom is older and has health issues but let him know its not OK to let the disrespect you and him not defend you or say you cant defend yourself. Ask him him how he would feel if it was him having to deal with it.
Cheyenne·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (4 нед.)
Ive asked him they are just a super non confrontational family. I blew up on him the other day because he wasn't putting my feelings first and he insisted we would move but i feel like it'll take him forever to actually do it. Im a SAHM but if i had the money i'd be out even if it was just me and baby alone. Im hoping itll kick him in gear girl. I just needed some where to vent all this cause itll build up and I'll explode if i don't
Cheyenne·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (4 нед.)
@roses702 unfortunately i dont have any family that could or would help :( i wish i did. I wish so bad i had some where to run to and i would just to get away.
Cheyenne·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (4 нед.)
I almost slapped my SIL the other day because of her smart mouth. I was just asking her where something was and she was like "why tf do you always ask me damn bitch" right in front of her mom. I raised my hand and was about to but i calmed down and thought about how it would be a big drama if i did. Shes a little moocher. 21 lives with us and pays no bills and only works part time at gap. Man i wish i had it that easy or family to help me for that matter :(
oceanhalo·
It's okay if your baby isn't walking at 10 months old, most children start walking closer to 1 years old or even past that... when you have your 12 month Well Baby check up if your baby isn't walking just touch bases with their Pediatrician and go from there, don't let his family make you feel bad.
Cheyenne·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (4 нед.)
@oceanhalo thank you thats what i try to tell them. Their own son didnt walk til 18 months but bc their daughter started at 10 they think mine should too. Shes learning. She walks around her crib and walks 6-7 steps with her stand and walk toy. She zooms around in her walker completely standing up. Not resting her but on the seat shes just trying to find her balance. They don't see it though. If it's not full force walking they're acting like she never will or something.
Casey Morales·
Мама троих детей
I would relax i lived with my in laws and it drove me nuts. You and hubby need to get away and focus on you. In laws butt in too much at least my mil did
Cheyenne·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (4 нед.)
@casey.jay.71626 ugh yes girl. They make my business theirs. And try to judge everything the both of us do
Casey Morales·
Мама троих детей
@cjohnston sorry for feeling this way but my family my rules and by family i mean me and my partner and any shared children. To many hands in the pot can cause stress
Cheyenne·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (4 нед.)
Exactly. Im just ready to move we get money saved then something happens everytime