I’m not sure what to do. I am so irritated by everything my husband does and definitely all the stuff he doesn’t do!! I am actually looking forward to next week when me and the kids go away for a few days without him. I understand he works and is tired but he doesn’t do anything when he’s home! He sits and plays on his phone. I ask him to play with our 2 yr old and he has him get his tablet so they can sit and play on them together. Things moved so quick for us and I’m not sure everything is meant to be...
@ashjordan2011, I try to but it always ends up in yelling and no one speaking for a while. Anytime I point out something I don’t appreciate or would like to improve he gets super defensive and throws any mistake I make in my face and that’s that. I tell him I know I need to do better too but he doesn’t listen to anything I say once I’ve made a “negative” remark about him.
@scared_shtless, I honestly don’t think I knew him well enough or as well as I thought I did anyway. We dated for about a year then got pregnant with our first, got married right after we found out. Looking back, I don’t think we should have gotten married but at the time it was what we wanted. I just don’t feel the connection like I did before. It feels like we live separate lives under the same roof. We don’t really have lives.... work, home and the babies.
A few days break will be good.
Keep in mind that something made y'all get together - and that should be the something that keeps you together. Perhaps some couple's counseling would be beneficial?