I really wish I could do a vaginal birth but I know it’s allll the way out after having 2 c-sections…

Idk how that stuff works but I'm sure the drs are looking out for you but I also believe that GOD will never fail you so follow your heart (if you're able) in this situation!! 💓💓 💓

@jordanrwilliams25, I don’t think so my son was 5 pounds and he couldn’t even come through enough for them to try and get a hold of him to help me push me him out . And that was after 3 straight hrs of pushing . And because I was in active labor contracting for 3 days straight 1/2 mins apart with nothing else happing bout time they kept me and helped me get to 10cm so i could try and push my son heart beat was dropping low with every contraction but they let me push until I couldn’t anymore .

@jordanrwilliams25, they know what they’re talking about but it just really sucks cause I really wanna push . And with my daughter a yr ago I did a head and shoulder test to see if I could try but I didn’t pass and she was 6 pounds so they said if I couldn’t push out 5 I’m not pushing out 6 and your bone structure don’t change . I’m meeting with surgeons to discuss my chances in 2 weeks . Even though I gotta c-section date set already . My doc said she’s just doing it so I can fully understand thats it’s not possible and because I’m high risk no doctor will let me try

@prestonjeanetta0120 😯 I'm sorry 💓

@prestonjeanetta0120, I’m in the same boat momma I’d love to have a vaginal birth it’s just too risky for me as well I’ve had 3 c sections.

@alyboo102293, do you understand people keep saying well at least your lucky enough to be able to carry a baby and that’s very true !!!! But it still doesn’t make me feel any better that I cant do something that I feel I should be able to do . Awe man and you had 3 already how was that one ? Was it harder than the 1st 2 ?

@prestonjeanetta0120, girl my third was a breeze my nurses were making me sit down 😂😂😂 telling me that usually they have to force moms to get up but I was walking around 2 hours after my section

@alyboo102293 I had vaginal birth with my son last it hurts as hell

@carol.braganca.2014, lol I wish I knew the pain, I know crazy to say

@carol.braganca.2014, I’m sure it do hurt lol . But I rather push if I could then have to keep having c-sections . Cause those become more risky each one you have and for someone like me who scares a lot I don’t need those . It took over an hr to get my daughter cause it was so much scarring from my son . I just wish I could have experienced a vaginal birth at least once .

@prestonjeanetta0120 it's the coolest feeling but omg the pain

@alyboo102293 it's indescribable

@alyboo102293, yea I’m the same way once I wake up I’m on my feet they be telling me to sit down I be in pain but it’s not enough pain where I’m just gone lay in the bed the whole time . I just don’t want another cause they had a hard time last year cause I had so much scar tissue from my son and Ima blessed so it took longer than expected. So I’m already knowing it’s gone take them even longer this time . They’re going to send me to a blood specialist towards the end of my pregnancy to see how I can thicken my blood cause iron pills don’t do anything . And both c-sections I lost soo much blood they wanted to do an transfusion but I declined and just let it raise back on it’s own so I stayed an extra 2 days until they felt I was good enough to go home

My mom had 1 vaginal 1 cesarean then a Vbac then another cesarean then another vbac ! Idk how she was able to do tht . They say vbacs cn be risky

@marielovely, yea they are but if you can do it I say do it unless they really say no . If I could push I’d push idc how long it took if my body was able to push that’s why I pushed for 3 hrs with my son but by then the doctors were all exhausted and my son heart rate was falling so they made me stop . But they did tell me before hand just from an examine I felt to small but they didn’t want to take that chance away from me

@carol.braganca.2014, lol I know the shit hurts like hell I’ve watched my best friend do it and I was like ohh hell naw lol . But after the pain it’s all worth it idk if I would be happy to do it again though but at least I did it once 😂

@prestonjeanetta0120 but girl after vaginal birth it hurt to pee

@carol.braganca.2014, I bet it does a damn baby just came through your nana lol . That’s one of the feeling I’m glad I didn’t feel that and when the shoulders are coming and they tell you to wait sometimes they said it burns like hell .

@prestonjeanetta0120 it's true does csections hurts

@carol.braganca.2014, yea !! Not the surgery cause they keep you on meds for the most part in hospital but at home it’s a different ball game . the healing-process is a bitch and it takes weeks to recovery and if you don’t take it easy you will recovery a lot longer . With my son I didn’t take it easy being he was my 1st so it took me bursting my stitches and then having them swoll and inflamed in the inside for me to take it easy I did so much damage that it took a yr to recovery . So any lifting would hurt like hell and make my incision instantly swell . With my daughter last yr I played it smart so it only took about 2 months for me to fell back to normal without swelling and pain . It’s a major surgery and if you don’t take the time to heal you can really fuck yourself up !!!

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@carol.braganca.2014, what are you having ? Do you plan on having more after this one

@prestonjeanetta0120 I am having another boy who knows another vaginal delivery we see after that tubes tied no more kids

@prestonjeanetta0120 no more kids for us after baby 2 had my first son last year after my 40 th birthday and 2nd one will be born a month after my 41 st birthday so we are done

@carol.braganca.2014, well you did it just right because your boys can get to literally grow up together and experience all there 1st together they’re going to be the best of friends 💙

@prestonjeanetta0120 yes after that no more we are done hubby 45 and I be 41