I never ever go through his phone but tonight I decided to because I’ve been feeling ways and couldn’t shake my intuition. And well needless to say my heart hurts so bad I could just die ! I’ve been fed up with him and his crap for a while but regardless nothing can stop that kind of betrayal it’s heart breaking to find out that not only is he trying to talk to other females but he also made plans to live off me long enough to get a car and save for an apartment this will be the second time he does that to his family and this time I swear on everything I’m not going to make it easy you can’t keep leaving me to struggle with kids while you live care free not caring if the kids are good or not so this time I will have child support set up he already pays medical support because he decided he didn’t want to be apart of my household anymore and in my state laws have changed and he will also have to pay childcare wether I deny it or not because if you don’t comply with child support you do not get child care assistance ,I’m not doing it to be bitter I’m doing it because it’s not fair that every time he decides to leave it’s hard for me to work and my children go without while he is out there living his best life. 😪