Why is it so hard to make mom friends?? Like honestly I feel like I’m the only one that ever puts in…
Why is it so hard to make mom friends?? Like honestly I feel like I’m the only one that ever puts in any effort 🙄
Why is it so hard to make mom friends?? Like honestly I feel like I’m the only one that ever puts in any effort 🙄
Mama Efe·
I can TOTALLY relate. Frankly it’s easier to speak to stranger moms than people in my community
Mama Efe·
Stranger meaning predominantly virtual
Katie·
@efesmama, even if I try to make friends online I’m the only one making conversation or into the conversation if I didn’t persist there would be no communication. And I’m not tryin to bug 🙄
Mama Efe·
@k_nc, in that case, hi Mama! Nice to meet you!! How’s the best trimester going for you, and how do you do it with a toddler (you’re a super mom)
Rose ·
That's exactly how I feel
Mama Efe·
As I impose a conversation on you 😂🤣😂
Katie·
@efesmama, haha hi!! Honestly my pregnancy has been miserable I’m still having all day sickness and don’t get the chance to relax because of the toddler 😅 how’s your pregnancy?? So close to the end!
Leslye Velarde·
Мама троих детей
@efesmama, 😂😂😂 I love it.
Katie·
@roses702, ridiculous right? You think we’d all be on the same page
Rose ·
@k_nc no 😑 having to be the one always reaching out gets annoying...
Mama Efe·
@k_nc, aaawwwhhh I’m really sorry to hear that. Perhaps you ought to try taking something for it? I’m not sure if you’re pro medication or not🤷🏾♀️. With the bambino ❤️I can only imagine how exhausting it must all be. I hope you’re getting as much love and support from your inner circle as possible. Gosh my pregnancy has been full of highs and lows, disappointments and joys. But as I go through the final stretch, I’m doing everything in my power to retain positive energy, find my calmness and stillness. I have no idea what to expect in that delivery room but I know, I owe it to my little girl to put my big girl panties on (inserts=> war cry and paints face for battle)
Mama Efe·
@leslyev, might as well right! Plus I’m always open to learn from moms who have experience with bambinos. Im flying blind 🤷🏾♀️
Katie·
@efesmama, whatever happens it will all be so worth it in the end! Just don’t have any expectations for labor honestly, you can have a full plan but I guarantee everything will go different! Oh I’ve taken every kind of medication I’m allowed to take and nothing works 😅
Stephanie King·
I get that feeling. I go to a mom group every week since I just moved to a new state and I feel weird like I don’t belong or will ever truly be able to be myself with these ladies. It sucks. I moved away from all my family and friends to give our kids a better life but I sure do miss my support there
Katie·
@roses702, I agree
Katie·
@mrsking13, oh man I’m so sorry! That would be really hard 😭
Katie·
@mrsking13, I saw you live in Idaho, I do too! Kinda far but still if you ever wanna y’all feel free!
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You can always write me 😊 I'm nice... Mostly
Mama Efe·
@k_nc, yes indeed I’ve been told flexibility is key!! Oh my gosh I’m sorry to hear that. That’s got to be frustrating 😞I really hope it subsides sooner rather than later. If not for nothing, you’re almost halfway there!!! When’s your dude date?
Katie·
@vvrobinson, mostly 😂 I love it!
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@k_nc at least I'm honest ☝🏻😂
Katie·
@efesmama, being open to everything will make it feel a lot smoother even if everything is out of control! Yes almost half way 😅😅 due Jan 18th but I’m expecting a December baby since I had preeclampsia my last pregnancy. Who knows though maybe I won’t get it this time and can go full term 🤷🏼♀️
Katie·
@vvrobinson, haha right! You’ve got that going for you 😂
Mama Efe·
@k_nc, I really hope you don’t have preeclampsia this time round. I pray for your full term!! Thank you so much for the heads up!! If you need someone to chat to online 🙋🏾♀️let me not disturb everyone else who’s commenting with my notifications. Sorry to the other moms! Sending positive energy and calmness to all of you, today and for the rest of your pregnancy 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Katie·
@efesmama, yes thank you!!
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@k_nc I had mild preeclampsia but I have a friend who had it bad. It's terrifying and I don't wish it on anyone. Like my ob said every pregnancy is different so no need to expect the worst off the bat. Stay positive this could all work out perfectly for you
Katie·
@vvrobinson, definitely staying hopeful but it’s diagnosable at 20 weeks and I’ve already been having high blood pressure and now I’m starting to swell pretty bad 😕 hoping it’s normal pregnancy but preparing for the worst! It is really scary to go through!
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@k_nc no kidding it is. I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻
Katie·
@vvrobinson, thank you!
Celia C·
That’s how I feel girl. But let’s be friends. Message me 😀
Katie·
@celia8991, I’d love to! I’ll hit you up tomorrow!
Celia C·
@k_nc, hey girl I tried messaging you but it doesn’t let me because you have to accept my request. 😀
Katie·
@celia8991, I just did 😊
Celia C·
@k_nc, it still doesn’t show up lol
Nik·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)
i agree :(
Katie·
@mombie, feel free to message me! It looks like we live really close!