I have a question. My kids father doesn’t want to work things out with me , but he still want to come over and sleep over for months here so. Am I wrong for telling him I want space because I need healing and I need to learn how to be independent
I would be honest with him. It's not fair to you that he wants to do that, but not willing to work things out with you. Let him know how hard that will be on you and not only will it confuse you, but like you said you won't become independent.
No you aren’t wrong. Space and time is necessary to heal, and continuing to allow him to lay up in your home isn’t going to help you move on. Stand up for yourself mama and let him know it’s a no go.