I want another baby in a few years maybe 2-3 years but then I don't. I feel like my support system…
I want another baby in a few years maybe 2-3 years but then I don't. I feel like my support system is not big enough to have more kids tbh. My n laws live out of state and I don't have family. Only my grand parents who of course are getting to old to help with my 2 I have now. And then of course my bf works. Maybe things will get easier once they get a little older.Then it's like I'm trying to get my body together and lose weight, someone was like so u gonna lose weight to gain it back later through pregnancy, like NO by then I'll be able still workout even when I'm pregnant and it's all about eating right too. And exercise and being healthy helps pregnancy abd labor go smoother is what I heard plus that snap back will be great too if I'm fit enough I have faith. But I have to make this decision with in the next few years since my bf is older in age🤣😂🤦🏽♀️ Just some random thoughts.
Valerie·
I totally get your worries, I’m in the same boat.
My parents don’t help much or want to have my son for me. It took them to want to have my son for me after he turned 1... His dad’s side of the family doesn’t help either. NowI’m pregnant and it’s going to get even harder with support☹️ My son and this baby have two different dads, this baby’s dad has no family basically. His father passed a few years ago, his mother ditched him when he was 2 months old, so he’s literally not close to any of his family members. My parents won’t take both my kids if I need help, if I’m lucky it’ll be just my oldest.