Ladies hopefully we can have a peaceful conversation about this...but on fb I’m in a discussion with…

@kia1991, that’s what I said. I mean what happens in an ex’s personal life is no longer your concern, building your new relationship is. But a lot of women seem to think the baby mom is important because if she isn’t good then neither is the kid 🤷🏾‍♀️

The new girlfriend. As long as the child comes first over everyone. The baby mum is a grown up, she can deal with her own problems. As long as it doesn't involve the child's welfare, baby mum should never concern the ex, especially if there is a new partner involved.

Agreed, new girl. The dad is only obligated to the baby not it’s mom, unless they were previously married and he is to pay her support of some sort.

The child comes first. The thing is women have this problem where they think just because they have a child with someone he is entitled to take care of her. Truth is his only obligation is to his child/children.

In my case the mom is no longer in the picture at all even with the son they had she lost him... So I'm stepping up and bring a mom to the little boy.. He's only 2 and we got our son coming Oct 3rd it a gunna be a lot for me because I'm gunna be a SAHM but I know I can do it

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@jenny955, I’m really sorry for your loss and I applaud you. That’s really a beautiful thing to do especially since it will keep the siblings close. You can definitely do it. When people put the babies before anything it really warms my heart. 💜

@the.real.og, 100% the gf shouldn’t be in decision making conversations.

@chasinghappiness thank you its sad that he's gotta go threw all this but we're here for him.