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tonys.mom1
Azalia.
ladies I need so much advice! so just this Saturday my sister and mom did a party for my son and it was all their plan because it was done at my sister's house so then they told me to invite a few friends or whatever so I litwrly invited two (the only ones I have) anyways so then my mom asked me if i was going to invite my baby daddy and I told her no and neither his family because I'm fed up with so much they've put me through so I didn't & by that I mean my baby daddy treats me like shit like my last post he yelled at me & called me a bitch and said he can disrespect me and his mom did nothing about it, besides lie to me and saying otherwise of not liking his new girlfriend but letting her live with her and so and his dad as well and I'm not even mad I'm just fed up with how they lie to me and expect me to let them give up my time all the time for them and I honestly do and I'm such a sucker because they lie to me telling me his gf won't go and if I'm not bother of him having a gf I accepted it after, it took me time I won't lie but that's only because there were so many times we tried to fix things and the last time we tried he played me with his current gf so of course I was pissed but then I got over it by putting my feelings aside and focusing on our son's best interest but I'm way to much of a good person. Anyways my baby daddy was upset that I didn't invite them to the party and decided to rant about it on FB and made me look like the bad guy& I honestly wanted to make a post stating that the reason I didn't invite them was because I didn't want him around me for what had happened and that I'm not obligated to invite him but I didn't post it.. but other wise as in how I'm trying to take re open our case into court can I use this ?
like guys I'm honestly fed up with him I don't even bother putting him on blast or to put our business on FB because y'all know how FB is but should I also write something on my post?
20.08.2018
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ashjordan2011
ashjordan2011
@preciouslove i mean can we get some type of justice Amen😀
23.08.2018 Нравится Ответить
preciouslove
preciouslove
@ashjordan2011, right!
22.08.2018 Нравится Ответить
ashjordan2011
ashjordan2011
@preciouslove i agree with you alot of mean feel they should get a pass for what they do ...they treat you like shit they have ass it when it comes to the child but your the one to blam... Yea but we as mothers that have 90 percent custody has all the say so especially in court ....he is Cleary still a kid livibg home with his gf in his parents home ...they bby him so gone keep doing what hr doing until u take matters into your hands n get papers than he want get upset over shit that he was not invited to in the frist place
22.08.2018 Нравится Ответить
tonys.mom1
tonys.mom1
@linacorral1562 what gets me mad is that the fact that his gf is such an instigator, she's young so she doesn't know how we have to be in good terms for our child and so she won't see us getting along she instigates
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buneeh
buneeh
@tonys.mom1, ik it’s tough. It’s not fair but just remember he’s playing these games to try and push your buttons and get a rise out of you. An abuser gets power through intimidation and instilling fear. Make little contact, ignore, tune him out. When he no longer has an audience he will realize that it’s time to get off the stage. At least that’s what I’d hope for you.
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tonys.mom1
tonys.mom1
@buneeh it just does get to me that he makes me look like I'm the bad guy and like he's the victim, I hope I can use this in court because I never reply on anything to him
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buneeh
buneeh
Don’t reply to his FB post. Social media is so toxic. Im sure ppl reading his post already realize he’s an abusive A-hole. If you reply you will be playing into this games. It’s bait. You should copy/ print his horrible postings maybe you can use it as evidence in court. In the meantime keep focused on you and your child. The party is for your kid. Someone else threw the party. If he ex didn’t get an invite oh well. He can throw is own party for his own kid.
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preciouslove
preciouslove
@tonys.mom1, He shouldn’t ask you for money you take care of his son. He’s just mad when you’re the one that has a reason to be. Is he a good father and active parent? Either way you’re not obligated when people are separated they usually don’t throw birthday parties together unless they have a really good relationship. Me and my boys dad are cool now we’re really good friends but at the beginning of our break up we couldn’t even talk. Hopefully things will get better ma.
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tonys.mom1
tonys.mom1
@preciouslove no I didn't ask him for money, just as he decided to put our problems in FB he also said the same thing that he doesn't ask me for money. but he's making me look like I had to invite him
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preciouslove
preciouslove
Nah I wouldn’t bother ma. It’s not your responsibility to invite him he can have his own party! Why should you feel uncomfortable at your sons party? Did he offer to help pay for it or help in anyway? I’d be like we are not together so if you’d like to have a small gathering for him that’s fine but ur not obligated to invite him when your not on good terms!
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