I think I’m getting worse. I’m so upset. I can’t get anything done when I’m by myself because I’m trapped in my own…
I think I’m getting worse. I’m so upset. I can’t get anything done when I’m by myself because I’m trapped in my own head. I know I’m getting worse because I’m sitting here thinking maybe if i drink some wine I’ll be able to get the laundry (that’s been sitting around for weeks) done. I took myself off social media and left mom life because other moms have felt this too and it’s comforting to know that. But I’m not sure that it’s good for me anymore. It’s been almost 7 weeks since my miscarriage and it’s still so fresh. Does anyone have advice for me?
Hailie·
Do you maybe have someone you know who’s also been through this that you could talk to? Even a lady from this app that’s gone through the same thing might be able to help. It’s good to talk. I’m sorry you’re going through a hard time. I hope things start looking up for you soon, love.
Kelly 🌻·
@hail, I’m currently talking to a friend that recently went through it. It just seems when we talk about how we feel, we just take turns being upset. I’m not sure if it’s helping me or not
Maria·
@kellynicole, my advice is give yourself time. A miscarriage is an awful, tragic thing to go through. I had mine 12 years ago and still grieve for the baby. Allow yourself time to heal. You’ll never fully recover but you will learn to live with the break in your heart. ❤️
Kelly 🌻·
@mariapb, i just can’t find something that’ll help me while i wait for time to heal me. When I’m alone it’s worse for me
Maria·
@kellynicole, what about some sort of memorial? You can make a memory box with your tests and any scan photos if you had any, write a letter to the baby and keep it all together. Something that you can go to when you need to feel that connection.
Kelly 🌻·
@mariapb, i actually have that! That’s a good suggestion though thank you. I had asked the sonographer to print out every picture taken during the pregnancy there are sooooo many.
Maria·
@kellynicole, that’s good that you have scan photos. I kept all of mine and my test, it’s so yellow now I’m sure it’s toxic! You can always message me if you just need to share how you’re feeling. Time will help you heal but until then keep faith that you are strong enough to get through this.
Deleted·
Grief therapy?