My biggest parenting challenge right now is how to discipline kai in an effective way so that he…

My biggest parenting challenge right now is how to discipline kai in an effective way so that he listens . Everyday he misbehaves while staring me in my face like he’s testing me 🤦🏾‍♀️ he doesn’t listen to me at all unless I shout at him or smack him . And it’s stressful as fuck