RANT: my s/o works while I stay home with our son. So he usually buys formula when we run out of…

U have the right 😔

You’re not overreacting. TF... you can’t leave the house?

@floralfairy, he thinks I’m ‘cheating’ when I leave 🙄

@fakoffyeh, you’re telling me girl. I’ve tried leaving so many times but I just can’t seem to get out. I hate it

@buntaine, oh no girl. That’s no way to live. And no way to love.

@hawkinsmommy, yeah I totally understand. I normally keep it bottled up and don’t post anything but idk how to get away from him. It sounds so easy to leave but it’s not. I tried and he tried to take our son because I have ‘mental problems’. He is so threatening and since I’m pregnant again I just don’t want anymore stress. It’s very stressful but he makes it 100% worse when I leave him.

@buntaine, I’m sorry you have to deal with that type of behavior. You’re not a child, you can make your own decisions. You’re worth more!!!!

@buntaine I am Soo sorry your going thru this and with Children..if you can't Get The F@#$ out for yourself do it for your children.... Don't let anyone tell you where and when you can go anywhere (don't let him control you...Every city has organization s to help Women especially with children and pregnant...I can help you look up places in your area..They help with Shelter, Job assistance(so u can be Independent) for you.daycare assistance doesn't get better with a man like that...trust me !

“He prefers I stay home, because he’s controlling af.” That’s a sign of emotional abuse.

You deserve better.

Also - he should definitely be calling and thanking her. That was super generous of her.

@buntaine, you stay because you don’t want him to come around and say something is “wrong” with you, and God forbid, he gets a big chunk of custody. Right? He’s threatening you because he is insecure. Avoid having other children with him hun. Your young. Don’t toss it all away for him. You need a loving and healthy relationship. Ownership isn’t love, it’s a sense of security.

Does your family (grandma) know he’s this way? Maybe you can go stay with her?

@cams, yes she knows. We are planning on getting an attorney before anything serious happens like last time

@hawkinsmommy, yes he is very good at brain washing me. Sometimes he makes me think that what he says and does to me is okay and I got trough a phrase of giving into everything he wants ‘hence how I got pregnant’. Then I’ll snap out of it and realize he’s mean, rude, controlling, and narcissistic. I hate that I’m so brain washed. I simply feel so alone in this. My family is super supportive but he really has a hold on my mind.

@hawkinsmommy, @buntaine, yup.. anxiety, depression, ect.... so many people have that. If your not a harm to him or yourself, your fine. Your SO just doesn’t want to make it easy for you, he doesn’t want to “loose” easily.

@buntaine if Your not Legally Married you can move anywhere u want asap...and if your married you can Get a restraining order regardless until a judge hears you..As long as your being the best you can for your children they will not be taken away(hate when insecure men threaten the mother of their children!) Save all texts,emails of his controlling ways..! Verbal Abuse is Abuse not just Physical abuse.. and ps In most states someone Not Allowing you to Leave is A Charge Of Kidnapping no one can hold you against your will..I hope things get better fast for you and your children. Make a plan and do what's best for you and your Kid's

@buntaine you say you have a supportive family Soo.. what's stopping you..We make choices in life daily...min by min..this doesn't sound like a way you want to live the rest of your life Being told as a adult Woman what you can and can't do... Don't give him Control over you . that isn't a healthy relationship and Real Men don't act this way ..Know you deserve much more 💓I am speaking from experience of same Bull shit when I was a young teenage mom at 16..i am 39 now...Learn your worth..as a Woman .. know your not alone and don't let him mind f@#& you...

You have ever right to be upset.

Girl I stay home to but my man don’t treat me like that. I’m the type to tell him I’m going out and I need money 😂 he knows if I don’t get out once in awhile I’ll start being psycho. Your guy need to re-evaluate why he’s mad. I’m sure he wouldn’t like staying home all the time either.

Girl message me if you wanna talk or vent or whatever. Even if you wanna get your mind off of it. I've totally been there. My bfs a child and gets mad if I'm gone during the day too. My life revolves around my kids not the damn house. 🙄