He gets visitation every other weekend and some weeks in the summer. Otherwise that’s it and when it come to school doctors or anything with the kids I take care of it. Says right in my divorce. Only reason I got it was we owned a business together and I offered to walk away from it for next to nothing. Sadly he don’t even pay attention to them. When they are there his oldest girl takes care of them.

I also separated from my son's dad and he was extremely verbally abusive and still is till today, how were you able to get physical custody? me and him have 50 50 but he always makes me feel or make it seem like he's the one to call out the decisions and that he has the right because he's the guy..

Glad you got out of that relationship and you and the kids are safe

So glad you were so strong for your kiddos!!! I know how hard it is to leave, but when you’ve got babies, it becomes more about what’s best for them than what he wants. At least that’s what I had to decide🤷‍♀️

yeah. Its amazing being with someone now im not afraid of.

That's so wonderful to hear that you got full physical custody. Got outta of that relationship. And are ok and thriving