Y’all I need help. I like unique names that you don’t hear very often. Well I really like the name…

I like Tatum James....but do you think he will get nicknamed TJ?

And Tatum James Alexander is awesome....two middle names. Very regal.

Oooh, I love that idea! @lovelily

@lovelily, I love that too!

He doesn’t like either idea 🙄. @lovelily, @fakoffyeh,

@fakoffyeh, I told him it still had James and Alex but he said he can’t 🙄

@fakoffyeh, I’m not sure yet. I just found out last Thursday. But I’d say I’m about 5-6 weeks. So we still have a long ways but I just like having things picked out ahead of time. Lol.

I like Tatum James

@fakoffyeh, he said he promised his grandfather that if he had a boy he would name him James Alex IV..

@fakoffyeh, I’m really not. I have a cousin name James so definitely don’t want it to be a first time. I really like Tatum James Alexander. Guess we’ll just wait an see what I’m having. && if he actually goes to the appointments an stuff.

@fakoffyeh, that’s how I see it too!

I guess it just boils down to if he’s gonna be around or not.

No one in my family knows about the pregnancy right now because my brother and his fiancé had a miscarriage two weeks ago and they just moved back from Georgia so my mom and I think it’s best to wait a little while before I announce it.

But he on the other I don’t think wants anyone to know. And when I told him about my ultrasound tomorrow all he said was okay. Like he hasn’t even bothered to say he wants to be there or anything. && when I do try to talk to him about baby stuff he’s real short with me or don’t answer me.

He was beyond mad when I told him I was pregnant and pretty much tried to say it wasn’t his.

I was on birth control but it didn’t work obviously. I literally took out the birth control the day I found out I was pregnant.

@fakoffyeh, no he has a 7 month old daughter. And he went to everything for her. He’s been pretty shitty with me over this. I already told him I did it once on my own already I can do it again. Lol.

I also told him he needed to let me know if he’s gonna be around or not.

@fakoffyeh, my thoughts exactly, but oh well. It’ll be his loss 🤷‍♀️