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Mesha

I had a friend of a friend tell me that my birth experience with my first two children was basically…

I had a friend of a friend tell me that my birth experience with my first two children was basically “not the real thing” because I chose to have epidurals vs going natural. Everyone’s experience is different & meaningful because we’re bringing life into the world regardless of how we chose to do it. Why she even cared about my choice is still a mystery 🙄😒

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lauracbaby2

Lauracbaby2

Мама сына (3 года)

She sounds like a bitch

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awesome1377

I'm Awesome

Мама дочки (2 года)

I got told my birth experience didn't count because I had to have a Csection

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newlyironman

Newlyironman

Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года)

I've had an epidural c-section birth and an all natural vaginal birth.

Amazing thing is... no one but me cares how they were born! That's the beauty of birth... the birth is the mothers story, that kid doesn't really care how it got here.

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t.jen88

Mesha

@lauracbaby2, she definitely is, without a doubt.

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t.jen88

Mesha

@awesome1377, wtf?? People can be so rude

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t.jen88

Mesha

@newlyironman, exactly! I was so caught off guard when she even asked if I had pain meds... like why do you care??

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t.jen88

Mesha

@salt., she does & she went natural with both apparently. It was the first I’d even met her! Who does that??

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n_favors

Nicole

I think regardless of how u had the child it's here so u birthed a child. Who's to say rather one person's experience was more real than another one

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t.jen88

Mesha

@n_favors, my point exactly.

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kelley.blue

Kelley87

I had a friend tell me the same thing!

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t.jen88

Mesha

@kelley.blue, seriously?? I don’t understand the motive behind saying that. It’s beyond rude.

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kelley.blue

Kelley87

@t.jen88 , it was but I returned the favor and told her that when she starts having whole babies then she can talk to me lol! It was mean I know but my babies come out weighing damn near twice what hers weigh. I told her that she just passes gas and hers come out lol!!! Don't let it hurt your feelings bc we all have the same goal, we just go about it in different ways!

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t.jen88

Mesha

@kelley.blue, so true! I think what shocked me the most is that it was the first time I’d ever met this girl in my entire life.. like excuse you lol?? Have some manners & common decency 🤦🏾‍♀️ But thank you! I’m over it now lol

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kelley.blue

Kelley87

@t.jen88 , Exactly! Girl I don't even know you!

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t.jen88

Mesha

@kelley.blue, right?? should’ve seen my face 😂 lol #icant

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kelley.blue

Kelley87

Tell her we both have kids and I didn't feel the pain... # winning! 😂😂

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t.jen88

Mesha

@kelley.blue, bahahaaaa 😂🙌🏾

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