I had a friend of a friend tell me that my birth experience with my first two children was basically…
I had a friend of a friend tell me that my birth experience with my first two children was basically “not the real thing” because I chose to have epidurals vs going natural. Everyone’s experience is different & meaningful because we’re bringing life into the world regardless of how we chose to do it. Why she even cared about my choice is still a mystery 🙄😒
Lauracbaby2·
Мама сына (3 года)
She sounds like a bitch
I'm Awesome·
Мама дочки (2 года)
I got told my birth experience didn't count because I had to have a Csection
Newlyironman·
Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года)
I've had an epidural c-section birth and an all natural vaginal birth.
Amazing thing is... no one but me cares how they were born! That's the beauty of birth... the birth is the mothers story, that kid doesn't really care how it got here.
Mesha·
@lauracbaby2, she definitely is, without a doubt.
Mesha·
@awesome1377, wtf?? People can be so rude
Mesha·
@newlyironman, exactly! I was so caught off guard when she even asked if I had pain meds... like why do you care??
Mesha·
@salt., she does & she went natural with both apparently. It was the first I’d even met her! Who does that??
Nicole ·
I think regardless of how u had the child it's here so u birthed a child. Who's to say rather one person's experience was more real than another one
Mesha·
@n_favors, my point exactly.
Kelley87·
I had a friend tell me the same thing!
Mesha·
@kelley.blue, seriously?? I don’t understand the motive behind saying that. It’s beyond rude.
Kelley87·
@t.jen88 , it was but I returned the favor and told her that when she starts having whole babies then she can talk to me lol! It was mean I know but my babies come out weighing damn near twice what hers weigh. I told her that she just passes gas and hers come out lol!!! Don't let it hurt your feelings bc we all have the same goal, we just go about it in different ways!
Mesha·
@kelley.blue, so true! I think what shocked me the most is that it was the first time I’d ever met this girl in my entire life.. like excuse you lol?? Have some manners & common decency 🤦🏾♀️ But thank you! I’m over it now lol
Kelley87·
@t.jen88 , Exactly! Girl I don't even know you!
Mesha·
@kelley.blue, right?? should’ve seen my face 😂 lol #icant
Kelley87·
Tell her we both have kids and I didn't feel the pain... # winning! 😂😂
Mesha·
@kelley.blue, bahahaaaa 😂🙌🏾