I just need to vent real quick soooo I've always loved California it's been my favorite place in the…

I just need to vent real quick soooo I've always loved California it's been my favorite place in the world since I was a kid so I wanted to name my daughter Caliyana (Cali Love) I've had the name for YEARS but I had a boy couldn't use it.My husband's sister's friend -who I don't even talk to - stole my name and to add insult to injury the baby is due ON MY BIRTHDAY I'm gonna scream! Even though I love my baby the gender disappoint is so real right now 😭😭😭😭😭