And I know people like to blame it on us BBers but honestly I loved B.B. because I knew I’d get tough love. I appreciate the blunt truth. Sugar coating isn’t helpful. I ask advice because I want it. And if someone makes a good point as to why I’m wrong or doing something wrong I grow from that. It takes a lot of strength to admit when wrong. And nothing but growth and maturity comes from that quality

Its the internet....unfortunately not everyone has the right intentions. I really like this app i joined at the begining of my pregnancy i see negative posts all the time i just scroll past them. If you avoid the negative drama you can really enjoy the app.

@taylorsmommy1017, I understand. I didn’t say you said all. I just said you seem to be focusing on the bad. More than half of the ML users I’ve come in contact with have been rude to me too. But as you can see I’m not a mean person. I just choose to focus on the kind people. That’s all.

@taylorsmommy1017, I get your point but it seems like you are focusing on the bad. Instead of talking about the bad maybe mention the fact that it was the ladies from B.B. who offered support to you when original MLs were being rude.

For instance I mentioned how I’ve come to be friendly with many original MLs. Instead of focusing on the negative like I’ve been called the R word several times. I’ve had someone threaten to come find me etc. I try to focus on the people who have treated me with respect.

@thisisfeeney I look for friends also on here since I don't have none in my area. I be wanting to talk to moms and everything about everything. Loli guess I be so excited about being a mom I like to share it lol

I’m still kinda new to the app but I definitely see what you mean. I’ve even had to block a few moms because they were just hateful to others. It’s unfortunate.

@queenteria, yeah then mom life offered to move all our info to here. I had been on baby bump for like 4 years and became friends with many. We still wanted to stay in contact. And that’s great you took the advice. It’s not bashing the parents at all. It’s just help

@shayybear oh it's ok im just seeing you tag someone

@queenteria my comment wasn't directed towards you lol, sorry for any confusion.

I understood your initial post.

@queenteria, I just see a lot of sugar coating on here. And also encouraging dangerous things. And it’s not all MLs. I’ve become friendly with a lot. But we’re all mom lifers now. There’s no division anymore. And there are some ladies from B.B. who can be rude.

I honestly didn't know they shut down

@thisisfeeney yea I wouldn't get offended by that either that's very helpful. When I brought a stroller to big for my baby a lady told me to get a head rest that you would use in a car seat and put it on the stroller. It help him from slinging his head from side to side

I'm not blaming no other apps. I used baby both with my first pregnancy but I had a miscarriage. I found out about this one with my baby I have now so I actually don't know how baby bump is@thisisfeeney @shayybear

@taylorsmommy1017 in all honesty you can't blame baby bump, pink pad or kidfolio users as a whole because both "sides" do it.

And remember we were and are the ones there when you or others need/needed support.

@queenteria, I see cliques. But the B.B. ladies tend to be more blunt. And I’m the long run I think that’s more helpful.

@queenteria, when I first went on B.B. I posted a pic of my daughter in her car seat. A lot of users told me her chest clip wasn’t high enough. I didn’t get offended and start calling names saying mind your business she’s fine. (which I’ve seen a lot on here) I said oh wow thank you I had no idea! Why wouldn’t I take advice on the safety of my child?

I just see a lot of different gangs

@thisisfeeney you right about it

@thisisfeeney true people not gone always like the opinion but that's just it it's an opinion it's not like you got to actually do what they advise you. You right about the name calling just because you don't like what's being said too.

And I know people like to blame it on us BBers but honestly I loved B.B. because I knew I’d get tough love. I appreciate the blunt truth. Sugar coating isn’t helpful. I ask advice because I want it. And if someone makes a good point as to why I’m wrong or doing something wrong I grow from that. It takes a lot of strength to admit when wrong. And nothing but growth and maturity comes from that quality

Advice and help isn’t always sunshine and rainbows. For instance wanting to self induce at 36/37 weeks is dangerous. That is a fact. And telling someone it’s dangerous and not to do it isn’t bashing. If you really look it’s women offering fact based advice and the poster getting angry. What people are forgetting is if you ask someone’s opinion you better realize 50% of the answer might be something you don’t agree with. And name calling as a response to getting opinions on your (in general) post is silly. It’s the internet.

@kailaraeauna we suppose to be helping each other not downing, bashing, or disrespecting one another

@babyttsmommy yep that's true

A bunch of judgemental hatin mothers likes to run their mouths talkin down on other mothers and what not cause either they have more kids than them, they just like the drama or some shit.. when i 1st got on this app last year in Feb everyone i seen on my feed was nice, nothing hateful to say, too bad its not like that anymore.. the world is just full of hate

@tyrellp I try to just scroll pass it but when I see people bashing one person it just irritates me

True

Its the internet....unfortunately not everyone has the right intentions. I really like this app i joined at the begining of my pregnancy i see negative posts all the time i just scroll past them. If you avoid the negative drama you can really enjoy the app.