I hope my little guy looks somewhat like me. MIL saw the ultrasound and said that he is all her son.…

Tbh i think he looks alot like you from the ultrasound

Its so hard to tell on the ultrasounds! They can be deceiving lol my daughters great grandma on her dads side used to drive me crazy saying that my daughter was "daddys little twin" because she saw her 3D ultrasounds and my daughter came out the spitting image of me, and to this day is my twin, just has the blonde hair from their side lol

And even with my son, i swore when he was born he didn't look like me at ALL. He didnt even look like his dad lol , but he resembled my SO's first born in so many ways. Fast forward 8 months and my son is the spitting image of his dad lol babies change sooo much!!!

Facial features, nose and mouth looks more like momma.

I’m so sorry to hear about your past

@kellynicole no it's ok. I am a motivational speaker about it now for child abuse awareness (though less so while pregnant). https://www.brandiheil.com/motivational-speaking

@gorgeousmay42217 @mj21on3 @mom4m Thank you all. Good to know as well. I think it just hit me hard the lack of family, lack of pictures, and then my son doesn't even get to resemble me. Happy and healthy is what matters most and I love his daddy to pieces so if he looks like him I would be grateful too! 😍💙

@malbhurtado

Yeah people say we are siblings a lot, we don't see it. Lol curly hair vs my straight, hazel eyes vs my brown, but maybe there is some. I would love our little guy to have some overlap between us both!

That's a very good perspective. Our friend shared on social media how proud she was she managed to have a baby that 100% didn't look like the daddy's family (her husband). And I know it was partially a haha that baby wasn't a red head like all of them but I felt bad for him. So yeah I wouldn't want hubby to feel that way either.

Aww thank you. Yeah, I keep telling myself he will have parents, know his family, and have photos of everything since I didn't have any of it. Thank you! 😍💙

@heilwife317, Hi😘 I just read your story and I wanted to tell you that your A Warrior and an amazing person and you will be such a great mother to your son! God bless your beautiful soul❤️ keep shining and helping our children and I thank you for that

@melissaredfield87 Thank you so much! I may not make a big difference in the world but any step is worth it! 😀

@heilwife317, You ARE making a big difference already by sharing your story and being a voice for a vulnerable child😘Keep sharing momma❤️xoxoxxoxo