Start focusing on you, make yourself feel good by getting dressed up for you, put on some of your favorite music at night and just let it take you away. Eventually when you're ready, start talking to people and find someone new. That's what always worked for me. You'll get there 🙂
Make a list of the reasons why he is your ex and the reasons why you loved him . If the bad out weighed the good you can visualize the damage that was done . If the good was more than bad than in time if it’s meant it will come back to you or you fight for him . But you have to make the list, it will give you clarity and make it easier. I never been through a break up but a friend has and it worked for her . Maybe it can help you too .
@ladyblauvelt_mommyof2 the idea of dating, being a single mom of 3 seems damn near impossible. I barely have time to shower half the time. I know as she gets older it will be different, but I always wonder how I'll ever manage.
@luv_2b_amomma the bad is DEFINITELY going to be a much longer list than the good. No doubt. But for whatever reason my heart is still stuck on him smh.
@jleona you will, it's still possible to have time to yourself now and then to go out and take a needed break... being a single mom to 1 was hard enough for me so I get it and couldn't imagine doing it with 3 but you still need to try and take that break now and then, it'll do a world of good for you. Maybe have someone watch the kids for a few hours one night.
@jleona, story of my life 🤦🏽♀️ single mom of 3 and expecting #4....we have three kids together and all i want to do is work it out but it’s so complicated. i just wanna let it go but it seems like a struggle 🙁
@jleona, that understandable that your heart will still be with him , but knowing that the list of bad is longer and acknowledging that fact now you know I shouldn’t go back to something that was bad for me . And you can move on eventually . It will take time , don’t try to rush it , just know that he’s not the one you should be with for all of those bad reasons .
Melissa ·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (18 нед.)
Think of the reasons he is your ex!!There is something better for you out there.
Allyson Almeda·
Start focusing on you, make yourself feel good by getting dressed up for you, put on some of your favorite music at night and just let it take you away. Eventually when you're ready, start talking to people and find someone new. That's what always worked for me. You'll get there 🙂
Toni 🌸🌟💕·
Make a list of the reasons why he is your ex and the reasons why you loved him . If the bad out weighed the good you can visualize the damage that was done . If the good was more than bad than in time if it’s meant it will come back to you or you fight for him . But you have to make the list, it will give you clarity and make it easier. I never been through a break up but a friend has and it worked for her . Maybe it can help you too .
Jaz·
@ladyblauvelt_mommyof2 the idea of dating, being a single mom of 3 seems damn near impossible. I barely have time to shower half the time. I know as she gets older it will be different, but I always wonder how I'll ever manage.
Jaz·
@luv_2b_amomma the bad is DEFINITELY going to be a much longer list than the good. No doubt. But for whatever reason my heart is still stuck on him smh.
Allyson Almeda·
@jleona you will, it's still possible to have time to yourself now and then to go out and take a needed break... being a single mom to 1 was hard enough for me so I get it and couldn't imagine doing it with 3 but you still need to try and take that break now and then, it'll do a world of good for you. Maybe have someone watch the kids for a few hours one night.
Chantell·
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@jleona, story of my life 🤦🏽♀️ single mom of 3 and expecting #4....we have three kids together and all i want to do is work it out but it’s so complicated. i just wanna let it go but it seems like a struggle 🙁
Melissa ·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (18 нед.)
@jleona don't sacrifice happiness for security. It will get better even if it gets harder first.
Jaz·
@ladyblauvelt_mommyof2 if I had someone to watch them I would. I dnt have that option unfortunately.
Toni 🌸🌟💕·
@jleona, that understandable that your heart will still be with him , but knowing that the list of bad is longer and acknowledging that fact now you know I shouldn’t go back to something that was bad for me . And you can move on eventually . It will take time , don’t try to rush it , just know that he’s not the one you should be with for all of those bad reasons .