So my son comes home from a overnight with his dad and he his dirty! Like sticky black gunk all over…

I think you are overreacting. He fed him, cared for him, brought him home. Just give him a bath and talk to him about it. Nicely

He does this all the damn time tho. There is a bath tub at his house, and I told him he had a bath before I dropped him off. I’m not overreacting at all because my child has sensitive skin and this irritated it.

I'd understand if he was older because kids will be kids and get messy easily. But a baby that can't take care of himself, dad needs to step up and take care of him. How long would he have gone without being cleaned if he stayed longer? Sounds like child neglect to me.

@mhbb3

he didn't care for him properly though.

That wouldn't be exceptable for a babysitter to leave him like that, the father should be more responsible.

It only takes a minute for him to wash the baby down with a wash cloth when he notices he's dirty.

My son's dad does the same thing 🙄 baby goes clean with clothes and shoes. Comes back dirty and naked. Ummm ok

@hippiemummy Well it's my opinion. You don't have to agree. I think if he's fed and changed and safe not wiping him down once is a small thing. my son's dad does this and it's irritating but overall he's a good dad.

I wouldn't start an argument about it yet, but I'd tell him he needs to start taking better care of your son when he is over there and that includes making sure he stay clean. He's his father, so he needs to do his job as a dad.

@mhbb3, he does this all the damn time. It’s not the first time this has ever happened. My son has sensitive skin, the man could use some common sense. I shouldn’t have to keep reminding him.

I’m not overreacting at all. This has literally been happening for the past 9 months. He goes there, freshly bathed, fed, clean clothes, nicely brushed hair, comes back looking a mess. My son has baths all the time, is always clean and uses special detergent for his skin problems. I got him back today with a full diaper and it was a poopy diaper. I do not play around when it comes to my son. I know he is a boy and he is going to be getting dirty but he is only 9 Months right now and shouldn’t even be coming home smelling all pissed up.

@jacksmama17

guess you have a responsibility to report him to cps then. Nine months of neglect at his father's?

@mhbb3, like honestly who are you? Like you don’t know me. I’m not asking for your advice lady. I’m just ranting. If you have nothing nice to say then goodbye! It’s not like it’s always been this bad but this is worse then it’s been before. So yea I do have to report which I planned on doing tomorrow since then it will be Monday. But you just wanna be judge. Congratulations, you have a better situation then I do so you can’t relate. Goodbye

@jacksmama17 you are saying he's neglecting your kid by leaving him in dirty diapers and not cleaning him. You posted it on a public forum. You said its been goung on for NINE MONTHS. Now you're getting crazy bc you don't like my response. You know nothing about my life or what I've been through. My life situation has problems just like yours. However, when people tell me the truth, even if I don't like it, I don't flip out. I said don't make a big deal bc I thought it was infrequent. You snapped back he's always been like his whole nine months of life. In that case you as his mom should do something about it.