@eshaaa im glad im not alone, its nice to know all you ladies are here with me. Thank you and you too stay strong love.

@sarinasmomma that feeling is the worst. It feels like everyone around you is almost mocking you, posting belly pics and stuff. Also thank you for the support!

@jazzie95 thanks

@viktoria45 oh wow! That lady is a butt!!! Im so sorry to hear that she keeps knocking you down like that. I was actually a foster child and adopted into a wonderful family.so its always been an option for me but i know how hard it can be.

No, i feel the same way. Stay strong and blessings your way

I’ve been trying for a year to get pregnant again and My best friend is about to give birth. My SIL is about 5-6 months and her sister is pregnant. I got pregnant right before my SIL and had a miscarriage. The feeling is awful. You have every right to be upset.

@jazzie95 thanks and you stay strong.

@jazzie95 the only way I found out about her 3rd baby was in a Christmas card. I was saying wtf why in a Christmas card. They ruin Christmas cards for me. I wrote a letter too and sent it back. The first pregnancy i was fine with. I have no clue why she thought i was jealous of her. Ps i enjoy fostering kids. We are still trying.

@viktoria45 im so sorry to hear that! That person is not a good friend. I hope you have gotten yourself out of that situation. And maybe we can be friends? :) hugss

@gecko_mom thank you as well! And she knows how i feel so were a tad distant cuz she doesnt wanna hurt me but knows im always here and vice versa. Shes a really great friend! :)

4 miscarriages. My ex no good friend who got her jollies by rubbing her pregnancies in my face just had her 3rd baby

I had issues dealing with my old high school friends getting pregnant and posting tons of pictures of their kids when I wasn’t even trying to conceive. I ended up unfriending some of them over it because it was hard for me to watch when I wasn’t ready to start trying (even though I had wanted kids for years). I think your feelings are completely normal and natural. If she is a good friend you can always talk to her about your feelings and how hard it is all for you. If not you can always try to get a bit of distance from the situation so it doesn’t hurt as much. 😢

@momof2gs hey thanks for validating my feelings. I feel so bad being jealous and sad and pittying myself. But at the same time we were trying to get pregnant together. But that didnt happen so having her be ready to havr the baby hurts so bad

Not at all! Your feelings are valid!! In the 2.5 yrs it took me to conceive my son I had 7 family members & friends conceive & give birth w no struggles. It killed me every time but I hid my feelings from them & put on a happy face. I even had a (now former) friend have 2 abortions during that time!! (Not the reason she’s a former friend) Infertility sucks & I’m so sorry for your heartache.