So I’ve been with my boyfriend over 4 years now im pregnant with my first child with him but this…
So I’ve been with my boyfriend over 4 years now im pregnant with my first child with him but this will be his third. The kids normally comes over on the weekend I don’t mind them cuddling up in bed with us because they normally do but now that I’m 21 weeks pregnant I’m afraid I might get kick in the belly by then while sleeping plus the 4 year old still wets the bed I despise that about her at being that old because her older sister learn pretty fast plus I was raised differently from how their mother is raising them how do I go about him having them sleep in their own bed?
Kelly ·
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I would have a talk with your boyfriend. And let him know you would like them to start sleeping in their beds.
Michaela·
Personally I wouldn't feel comfortable bed sharing a bed with another womans children. But you should definitely talk with him.
Cams ·
You can’t despise a 4 year old for wetting the bed. It’s a developmental thing. Just because the sibling learned faster doesn’t mean this one can. Just communicate with your boyfriend and tell him you’re uncomfortable.
A J·
Definitely voice your concerns or it might turn into resentment. At the end of the day your in their life and your voice matters. It’s also your home so you call the shots.
Potty training is a difficult time for both kid and parents. I would address the bed wetting and co sleeping issue with ease... It will take time to adjust for everyone. Find things to encourage the home life you want.
Steph·
Yes ! Like all the other mom's mentioned, just talk to him. I have two stepsons who've been around me since they were just tiny as well and I always mentioned to my SO that I didn't like co sleeping with them nor my kids when we were in the same bed. Girl you're pregnant, you need as much of the bed as you can get too lol
Rusheeda·
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@cams, I don’t despise her I despise the fact that she wets the bed multiple times a night
Morgan ·
Wetting the bet at 4 is still normal, and I’m sure even more common in separated families. It can be frustrating but stressing them out over it only makes it worse, she can probably feel your despise and comparing to her sister. It’s something they have to be ready for.
Your bf needs to be on board in order to get them in their own beds. This is what comes with separated families, everyone has their own views on parenting. Their mother is going to be doing things differently until they’re 18.
Rusheeda·
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@modom16, she have not heard me talk about it and I show her no less love than what I give to her sister I’ve been in her live ever since she was born I didn’t say that o despise her I said I despise the fact that she still owes the bed