@mhbb3 nope unfortunately it wont. ;( he'll just say something to make him self look like someone should feel bad for him or pitty him. :( I've had patience as long as i can.
what about counseling? A third party to point out his self pity issue.
Eta I don't know your life but one mistake I've made a lot in my relationship is not expressing my feelings because I think I already know how he'll react. Even if I'm positive I do, not expressing myself has been really damaging to us.
@mhbb3 we tried conceling but he said he'd never do it again. I tolled him litterly how he's hurting my feelings. I'm so lost as to what to do. He's litterly pushing everyone who loves him away and saying how he's an ass hole and how he never met his dad because his mom he says is a slut. (His words not mine) im very experessive with him and extremely patient. None of his family even talk to him anymore. Its so bad his mom or sister wont even come get us for church tomorrow. They want absolutely nothing to do with him. Honestly im just praying because he's really pushing me...
What would he do if you said it's either counseling or separation? Do you want to stay? If you do what is it going to take for you to be happy? It's hard when you're pregnant bc things that weren't that troublesome before become more noticeable.
Melissa ·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (18 нед.)
s/o been off since Friday morning 😑
AngelFirstTimeMommy·
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@mhbb3 ugg! Hes had like three days where he waz nice. Hes doing everything he can to make me feel sad and guilty about anything he can.
Melissa ·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (18 нед.)
@angelbrownell26
Will it help to talk to him?
AngelFirstTimeMommy·
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@mhbb3 nope unfortunately it wont. ;( he'll just say something to make him self look like someone should feel bad for him or pitty him. :( I've had patience as long as i can.
Melissa ·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (18 нед.)
what about counseling? A third party to point out his self pity issue.
Eta I don't know your life but one mistake I've made a lot in my relationship is not expressing my feelings because I think I already know how he'll react. Even if I'm positive I do, not expressing myself has been really damaging to us.
AngelFirstTimeMommy·
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@mhbb3 we tried conceling but he said he'd never do it again. I tolled him litterly how he's hurting my feelings. I'm so lost as to what to do. He's litterly pushing everyone who loves him away and saying how he's an ass hole and how he never met his dad because his mom he says is a slut. (His words not mine) im very experessive with him and extremely patient. None of his family even talk to him anymore. Its so bad his mom or sister wont even come get us for church tomorrow. They want absolutely nothing to do with him. Honestly im just praying because he's really pushing me...
Melissa ·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (18 нед.)
@angelbrownell26
What would he do if you said it's either counseling or separation? Do you want to stay? If you do what is it going to take for you to be happy? It's hard when you're pregnant bc things that weren't that troublesome before become more noticeable.
AngelFirstTimeMommy·
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@mhbb3 honestly i don't know.