@faithhopelove, exactly I don’t wanna move my whole life knowing the consequences

@intelligentmind2015, I totally understand where you're coming from. My older sons father moved to MO from FL and wanted me to come even though there was literally nothing for me out there and so much opportunity in FL. I did it because I loved and wanted to be with him. Worse decision of my life. I'm now happily back in FL without him lol.

@intelligentmind2015, but being with someone sometimes u hv to sacrifice sometimes if ur married u would understand more

@diegosmommy0213, He was going to college and my best friend was also going to the same college as him and she introduced me to him and we started talking from there and because I have to transfer all my life over there for him it’s not fair not only that the cost of living where he’s at in the job he has he refuses to get a better job so we can have a good place so I would be pulling all the weeds and I don’t want to do that where I’m at it’s way much more cheaper and I have more opportunities for myself here

@intelligentmind2015, how u two meet?
Y don’t u just pick up n move n wit him n start from there

@diegosmommy0213, well I’ve been with him for three years now and for three years I really don’t know how to manage my money in the beginning and I always said that I was gonna move but I never had the chance to so we had our daughter and I really wasn’t financially ready for her I just started getting financially ready now that I finished college and I’m trying to save all my money so I could move really waiting for my taxes to come but he’s not putting any effort into saving or anything at all so I don’t even have an appetite to try to move with him because he expects me to move to his city and he won’t move the mine which makes no sense

@intelligentmind2015, y don’t u live wit ur hubby?

@diegosmommy0213, It’s not that it’s that lives in a different state he barely helps me with his daughter because he says that I don’t live here and even when I go over there he still doesn’t help me you know it’s like I’m trying for the sake of our daughter but it’s not working anymore and then I told him today that I wasn’t happy and he told me to explain and then he responds with well just says nasty things and tells me we don’t need to be the gather I don’t need that type of energy in my life anymore I just give up

I nvr c my hubby with his work schedule n mine.. he works seven days with 1-2 days off a month .... and my schedule is mon-fri n I get up at four am n I’m n bed by 8 pm so I do t c him at all u til Friday night and sat night ... lol rough but it’s manageable I love him n we work things out

How about talking to him?