My son does the same, once I start feeding him he eventually calms but it is very frustrating at times. I try to dab dab instead of full swipes with the cloth at first to try and get him to laugh before I wipe the rest. My little guy doesn't stop moving so I can understand them not wanting to be strapped in, but nows as good a time as any to teach them some boundaries can't run around and eat your meals at the same time lol I'm hoping it's a faze that will pass, good luck 😁😂