Y’all I know we vent here about our spouses or whatever so since things have been going down hill…

It sounds like you’re trying to convince yourself this.

My parent's were married over 35 yrs until my dad passed away...my dad used to say he wanted NO one to raise his 3 daughter's that he will not divorce my mom but,,when we were all out of house he would leave..my middle sister never left haha but,,he did keep his word..my mom wasn't motherly ..her parent's died when she was 11 yrs old within 3 Month's and a day of each other...She isn't grandmotherly either..so I am veryyyyy motherly and nurturing to my children ....anyways I'm grateful to have had the father I did he took Us to do our hair,shop, out to dinners, spent time with us..(thing's a mom should've done....I have 3 boys had my oldest as a teen mom..waited 5yrs to meet a better man and we are together 17 yrs ..we have gone thru our thing's as all couple's do..but,my dad's words always stuck in my head...I wouldn't want just anyone in my son's lives...Do what makes you happy girl..life is short..and what a tremendous other man you might have as a friend that stepped up..But,,ask yourself what if your man was doing the same and you found out...

@doimakeyourandiii, convince myself what ?

@sherrynygirl, I agree and like you said think about if he was doing the same and I found out honestly I’ve reached a point with him to where I really don’t even give a damn 😞 sad to say it’s been sooo much has happened over the last 6 years between us and when I address things to him he tend to brush them off and say I’m crazy but this pregnancy has been a eye opener any man that can treat his pregnant wife like scum off the bottom of his shoe isn’t a man I want to be with period I’m classified as high risk haven’t been able to have sex since 9 weeks pregnant due to placenta previa he gets highly upset because I can’t have sex and when I do too much walking and end up

Bleeding he bitches and moans when I’m at ER about OUR child

@takiahilk he does sound like a piece of sh@$ wow..I was hi risk w my last pregnancy due to my age ..and worked all 9months of my pregnancy...some men never get it...what our bodies go thru carrying their child..just think you should be extra cautious your at the end of your pregnancy and the last thing you need is drama coming to light between him and your friend...you hear on the news all the time men snap at their pregnant wives/girlfriend please stay safe...I wish thing's fall into place for you....Take time for YOU....and if your husband can't man up and do Thing's for his children and you then make a plan..To move fwd

@sherrynygirl, It’s not like my husband is in the blind he’s fully aware that this friend has been helping me well helping us because anything he does my husband benefits from it anyway my husband has said plenty of time how grateful he is that I have him this is the same person who saved my job back in 2016 when he could’ve just been like fuck me over the course of our friendship you know we’d invite him to dinner for holidays his birthdays I cook dinner

@takiahilk ohhhhhh,,, so He's okay with another man stepping up...Soo he doesn't have to Give to his family..yeah he sounds selfish in my opinion..and lazy...Your friend does sound like a good man but,, honestly he might be expecting more from you as a friend.....does he have a girlfriend or wife? I'm all for helping someone but,,sounds akward your man is fully aware and IT doesn't bother him...How do you feel about your friend?

@its.a.bird, anything that I need done basically that I can’t do myself

@its.a.bird, both... we actually just had a discussed about the terms of our friendship and he stated that he knows the type of person that I am and how much I have scarified for my family and it’s lead by faith that he scarifies for me in the time of need he’s not expecting anything in return he’s just here to help me through this troubled time

@its.a.bird, that’s the plan but my husband can throw in my face how he can take off work to do things with his friends or for what they need him to do it’s hurtful because I’d never do him like this

@its.a.bird, agreed