So let's say your spouse wouldn't let your parents come over to your home because he doesn't like…
So let's say your spouse wouldn't let your parents come over to your home because he doesn't like them for vaild reasons but you want them to come over, what would you do?
We have had our own place for two years and my parents have never been allowed over because my husband is afraid my mom will tell everyone where we live and go through our stuff. I trust her enough for her to come over but it would cause a huge fight between my husband and I. My parents always bother me about coming over.
Lanie Jay·
If he has valid reasons, I would respect his wishes.
Paper Plane·
I would laugh at him and say "it's so cute you think you have a say in something like that"
K🍁·
@laniejay I always have considering they have never been to our place. It's not worth a fight lol 😝
Lanie Jay·
@journeyofbabbles, if he has valid reasons, why would it even be a fight?
K🍁·
@laniejay Like if I just ever let them over it would be a fight but I would never do that because I respect my husband and what he has to say.
Lanie Jay·
@journeyofbabbles, what I am saying is why would you even want them over if there are valid reasons for them not to be... if there’s valid reasons for someone not to be in my home, I sure as hell am not having them in my home.
K🍁·
@laniejay my husband has vaild reasons for the way he feels about them but I trust my mom enough that she wouldn't do anything. They just don't get along and my husband has every reason why he doesn't like them but that doesn't mean I don't have to not like them either. My parents wouldn't do anything like my husband thinks they would do. It's just a complicated situation more than a little post explains.
Celia C·
Let’s say that I’m kind of in a situation like that, but I live with my boyfriends parents. He doesn’t like to go visit my parents for supposibly “valid reasons as well” but I believe it’s all stupidity on my side. Eventually one day they will have to get over it and move on.
K🍁·
@celia8991 I completely understand that. My husband hasn't talked to my parents in almost 2 years and my son and I are the only ones that go over there. I guess we can hope they will all get along eventually!
Celia C·
@journeyofbabbles, girl same here. I go see my parents every weekend on saturdays and my boyfriend doesn’t like going cuz he says that we are crazy and we cause a lot of loudness but that’s the way we are and he’s not used to that. And it sucks because I feel like we are in the middle of everything. I believe that one day our boyfriends/husbands will end up needing our parents help one day. And yes I hope one day they will get along for the sake of our kids.
K🍁·
@celia8991 Well that isn't fair to you. He should just except that you and your family are loud. There isn't anything wrong with that. As long as you guys are having a good time and you're happy around your family. There is a lot worse out there and he should realize that lol.I completely agree with. It's only going to get harder the older our children get.
K🍁·
@bitchcraft I'm sorry you're going through the same thing. On one of you more recent posts I saw that you have to travel with your little one to see your family. I give you props for that!!