You know, it really grinds my gears when my friends (no kids) complain how tired they are because…

I know the feeling my dad once complained to me he was

Tired and I was like oh really your going to tell me what tired is are you waking up every 2 hrs at night ? People this days lol

Hang in there mama you are doing great

@erikaarenas96, she was just complaining about her life a bit. You didn’t have to come for her like that. If you’d like to pay her bills so she can quit one of her jobs have at it. That wasn’t friendly advice. You were being rude.

I agree everyone has a right and a reason to be tired, yours just happens to be the things you mentioned. It’s not their fault you have all that going on nor is it yours they are tired.

@alishap1212, some people lol thank you!

@gummybear728, I wasn’t the one who said all that about your job and what not! You do what you have to girl, no shame in working or doing what you want. Have a good day.

@bigmama18md, thank you. I was just trying to vent to my mommas who I know have a busy life because we are moms. I wish I had no responsibilities, bills, rent, and such to worry about. But hey. It is what it is. Thank you again ☺️

@let_there_be_life, I meant to hit reply on the other comment love. Not yours I’m sorry about that

@erikaarenas96, I’m not the one complaining I’m tired. So thanks for that.

1. I enjoy being pregnant.

2. I love having a second job for extra spending money. My mom taught me how to hustle to move up in life. I still even ask around if people need yard work done or dogs walked or anything. I’m ambitious. In winters, I shovel out in Boston for $25 an hour. I like to work. I love money. Again I’m not complaining. I don’t need to be like this. My one job is fine. But I want more.

3. I was in a car accident and my car was totaled. I’m saving up to get a better car for myself and my girls.

Yes. I get tired from time to time. And I understand that everyone gets tired. But please. Let me hear a real reason instead of “I stayed up till 3 am smoking and drinking. And now tomorrow I have to work 4-8. But I think I’m gonna go out after work again. “

Everyone is allowed to be tired. But don’t come on my post telling me maybe I should’ve gotten a better job. Because I DAMN well love my jobs. Like I said. My momma raised me to be ambitious and hustle for the things I want in life. She did the same things and that’s why she has a house in Florida, Pennsylvania, a place in Rhode Island, and her boat docked in Massachusetts. She hustled and was ambitious. K. Bye.

@tinyhumansbitch, thank you 😊

@mumma_of2, thank you. I can’t believe she said that either. My jaw literally dropped. Oh well.

Not going to lie, I am less tired at almost 27 weeks pregnant than before! I am 34 years old and we have pretty much led a carefree lifestyle until now. Drinking and partying made me more tired than I am now!

I was tired before kids and I'm tired after having kids. But what I'm not going to do is tell people without kids that they don't know what it's like to be tired. Because it's just not true. 🤷🏼‍♀️Just because you have it "worse" doesn't mean someone else doesn't experience similar stress or exhaustion. I could sit here and make a list of why I believe I have more of a reason to be tired than you but I'm not going to because what's the point? It's not a competition.

@aengs2, sorry for venting. But it was something that bothered me. I understand it’s not a competition. I’m not making it a competition. I don’t have it worse than her. And I’m not really saying I do.

Not gonna lie, both are choices, your lack of sleep and hers, neither makes you more certified to complain

@ohnstadk, honestly I can bitch all I want about it. I know what I do is my choice and what she does is hers. But I can bitch about it because it’s annoying to me. I really don’t care if you agree with my bitching or not. It’s how I feel about the situation