It’s okay to not be ok. I had a miscarriage 3months ago at 9wks and I would’ve been 26weeks by now I’m currently pregnant now and it’s still all overwhelming. Find things to keep your mind busy and if u need to cry just let it all out. It’ll get better❤️

@penelope127 yeah that sounds like a wonderful idea to remember

@whoswhoo thank you for understanding. I think about who he/she would have been too

I miscarried at 8 weeks last August. Tbh, prior to the mc, I felt as if women should just get over it. Omg, when it happened I was in for quite a shocker. I thought my SO would be the one who would be sad and depressed, but it was me. I felt like I was living in a blurry world. I would tell him I felt like I was there physically, but my mind was somewhere else. After some time I was okay, but I still cry when I think of losing my baby. I sometimes wonder who he/she would’ve been. The baby would be 3 months old right now, but now I’m 3 1/2 months away from having this baby. I’m sorry you’re having to endure all of this. Miscarrying is no joke & it is truly heartbreaking what women have to go through. @casey.jay.71626,

Yeah take time for yourself. It’s hard, I’ve been there too. I lost a baby at 10 weeks. If you need to cry, let it out. It’s the holding in of your feelings were it makes things harder.

Do something special in babies honor, maybe a small tattoo, maybe just a small ornament for the Christmas tree? Make a small garden area?

Yeah i figured that's what it is. I need time. I happened at 6 weeks 4 days and at first it didn't hit me.. It happened Saturday i went to work Monday and now is when I'm like wow i need a minute.

💓 only a woman can understand...yrs ago had a miscarriage at 6 wks..(take time for yourself)