So I just tried to tell my husband i want to do all natural birth this time and he pretty much just…

Its okay I had the same argument with my last pregnant. Girl 😂 when the time came I yelled epidural before he got me to the hospital. They don't understand why we want to even try to do it natural they are men . its going to be okay. Don't cry. You make the choice in the end either way it goes.

@albertrettazariah1386 I tried to with my last pregnancy and my doctor came in abd said i need to get it now before it was to late and i said it was there but did not force it on me but i looked at my husband and and i saw he was hurting for me and wanted to take the pain away from me so i asked for it i hated see him like that but also felt like i could have done it. But i will see what i want to do when time comes i just wont talk about it to him.

@lillynellasmom ooooh o understand just let him know your alright just him comforting and being there for you as support is enough. I wasn't even thinking about it this time. I planned on just waiting to see how it goes ...

@albertrettazariah1386 yeah i was just thinking about it because i am about to be 21 weeks tomorrow and time is flying by and trying to make plans just in case i do go in to labor at 36 weeks since i have a history of my body doing that and it came up kind of.

I had our daughter naturally it was best experience and yeah I was in pain and my husband totally was there to support and help me through the pain. @lillynellasmom

@mommytoveralang see my husband will help me but he cant stand to see me cry or be in pain it like he gets anxiety and has to do something about it even if it like yell at a doctor or nurse to help me or get me somthing and i cant stand to see him lile that. I know he doesn't mean to be like that. I also want to be able to experience it at least once.

@lillynellasmom I feel so unprepared now lol. I'm 33 weeks n i usually have them a week or two before due date. I haven't even packed a bad or decide what I'm taking or had any talks with hubby besides which hospital and I still haven't made a solid choice on that . 😢.

@albertrettazariah1386 I'm such a worry-wart and I plan but I still haven't done like everything yet I make at least a plan a in a b and sometimes it doesn't go like I want it to but I know I'm doing it now since I have two kids and I know if I don't do it now it's never going to get done.lol

@albertrettazariah1386 I saw your from San Antonio if it helps I had my first at the Methodist Hospital really like that there.

@lillynellasmom awee what a sweet husband. But he also should respect what u want if that's what u want! It was actually not bad just when u pushing it definitely hurts but they can give you iv meds you'll just sleep for like 4hours I did when I woke up I had contractions for an hour or so I pushed for 45 min and she was here!!! After u have her u forget all the pain.

@lillynellasmom oh man I need to change that I live in California I moved about a month ago!! My husband is in the army

@lillynellasmom I don't think my doctor is associated with that hospital. I had planned on going to the metropolitan downtown like I did with other two but at 26 weeks they tell me he don't go there anymore. While I was in the hospital sick. And gave me a list of like 5 places and non

@mommytoveralang well he said he would be okay with it if that what i really wanted but he is hopping i want the meds so he dosent have to feel that way.

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@albertrettazariah1386 aww well that the only hospital that i ever went to while i was living down there wish i was more help.

@lillynellasmom well that's good!!!

@lillynellasmom thanks tho . lol. I probably will still ask

Awww don’t stress. He’s the one that can’t handle it. Get him a good stress ball. Stick with your decision, but remember you can always change your mind! Well, at least until the very end- there is a point where you cannot change your mind because you are too far into labor/delivery.