The whole 5 years me and my husband have been together we’ve never done anything for my birthday.…

The whole 5 years me and my husband have been together we’ve never done anything for my birthday. The first two he didn’t get me anything for birthday anniversary or Valentine’s Day until I finally said something. I’ve always planned a trip and got him something This year I wanted to maybe go out of town to San Fran but nope mil wants to a get together for his grandma. Another year of just sitting at home and doing nothing. Next year I’m planning a trip with just me and my kids since my daughters birthday is so close to mine.... I’m usually not the type of person that’s like I want to do something for my birthday but one year would be nice. Rant over