After baby is born how long have you ladies not had sex ? I actually don't miss it or want it…

This was me. Seriously. I think finally did around 9 months? After I stopped night nursing. I had 0 drive and felt like....repulsed by the thought.

@cdquint02 yes i feel that way and also i dont wanna get pregnant again birth was so hard my hemeroid s are horrible omg !!! And I don't know what birth control to take

@verguinia I am lucky and don't get my AF while I'm nursing so that's not a concern hahaha! But I hear you, take your time! And communicate with Hubby. I made sure to explain that it wasn't him, it would pass, and we were just lovey dovey otherways

@cdquint02 im going to take my time and i need birth control !

@verguinia I am anti BC myself so hopefully one of the other Mamas on here can recommend!

@cdquint02 I have heard everything and none look appealing to me too many side effects or uncomfortable sounding like the shot takes out period and the ring you can feel it. No sex sound wonderful right now lol

@verguinia hahaha abstinence is 100% ahahahaha. I do rhythm method myself, pull out when you get your groove back 😂

@cdquint02 hahahaha I tell him to pull out and sometimes he says it happened too fast and he couldn't pull out men are not to be completely trusted ever !!!!!

So freaking true! Seriously.

@aileen_west im in the same exact situation but we are not thinking if we want another he wants one more I don't lol

I don't plan on trying anything until after my 6 week checkup. I need to be on birth control before anything..

@ladyblauvelt_mommyof2 which birth control do you want to take ? I don't know which to take

@aileen_west I don't want more so he is going to have to settle but I know if I'm not on anything he will try to get me pregnant again !!!

@verguinia I'll be going back on the pill. It's the only method I really trust.

@ladyblauvelt_mommyof2 ok I'll Google the pill more

@verguinia the brand that worked best for me was Kariva, I'm going to try that one again when I go to my 6w check up.

@ladyblauvelt_mommyof2 I'll ask my doctor about that one one thank you